It all started with a contest. I was asked by Pottery Barn to be a part of a design challenge against some of my peer bloggers. We received $100 Visa card to participate and the winner received a $500 gift card to Pottery Barn. It seemed like fun, so I decided to participate. In the back of my mind I was thinking – if I win this thing, that gift card is going towards a new sofa.
Well, thanks to your votes, I won!
So, the $100 Visa card and $500 gift card started my sofa fund. I also sold my pine dining room table, so that gave me another $600. $1200 was a great start, but the sofa cost $3200 total (including taxes, shipping and a surcharge.) I still had a long way to go and I agreed that I wouldn’t pull from our regular household income to pay for this sofa. I needed to get creative.
My first thought, of course, was – what can I sell? I had a ridiculous stash of rugs in the basement, so that was a good place to start. It’s really silly to keep a practically brand new Dash & Albert rug in a flood-prone basement to fold laundry on. So, I have sold four rugs for a total of $935 (I’m still waiting for two of them to be picked up, but they have been spoken for.)
That brings the total to $2135. My envelope was filling and that new sofa was in reach!
So, I took a stroll around the house to see what else I could sell. What else was I not using or didn’t love that could be sold and turned into a sofa? Out of nowhere, a thought came to me. I have a “points” credit card for my business and I have never cashed out any of those points! That’s something I’m not using that could be turned into a sofa! I had enough points to get $555 in cash, so I cashed out those points and added the cash to the growing sofa fund. The total was now $269o. I was pretty excited at this point, because the cost of the sofa on the website is $2699, but with shipping, surcharges and taxes, the total leaps all the way to $3200, which was a major bummer. I still needed more.
We have a personal credit card that we earn points on as well, so I called my husband to see how much money we could get for our points. He looked into it and called me back. We could cash out $600 with our points. There’s the sofa! The $600 brings the final total to $3290.
So, aside from the gift cards, I was able to buy the sofa with things I already had that I didn’t want or wasn’t using.
Now, I know because of the nature of my business, I have more things hanging around that I can sell, but, as I mentioned in THIS POST, I have been doing this sort of thing for years.
Before I go, I want to address one thing. I know that me buying a $3200 sofa, even with gifts cards and rug money and credit card points, is going to rub some people the wrong way. This blog is about creating a beautiful home on a realistic budget, right? Yes, it is. You have to keep in mind that probably 95% of the furniture in my home was free, from a yard sale, thrift store, antique store or flea market. In the past few years, I’ve only bought two brand new, really nice pieces of furniture – my Restoration Hardware bed and this sofa. I prefer old things, anyway, but in both cases, I wanted something very specific. Trust me. I’ve been scouring Craig’s List and eBay and thrift stores for what I was looking for over a few years, but I never found it. So, in these two cases, I splurged and got exactly what I wanted.
The fact that my dining room chandelier was $4.00 and the buffet and corner cabinets were free…the fact that my channel back chair was found on the side of the road, the wing chairs were free yard sale leftovers and the ottoman was free with Joss & Main credits…the fact that the French chairs were $10/each at a yard sale and I do all of my own upholstery, sewing, painting and refinishing…all of those things balance out two big splurges on pieces of furniture that we’ll (hopefully) enjoy for decades.
I think it’s tough for us “thrifty girls” to give ourselves permission to go into a real store and buy something that doesn’t need to be glued, screwed, fumigated, patched, painted, repaired and refurbished. It was tough for me to step outside of that world and it will definitely be the rare exception, but I know when that sofa is delivered and we’re enjoying it in the space, I’ll be glad I made that splurge.
PS – How many people are looking up the points earned on their rewards card now?
234 Responses
This sounds like a very balanced way to look at furnishing a home. Unnecessary guilt can be troublesome, that’s for sure. You work hard on your blog and on your home so even those gift cards weren’t “free”. Thank you for sharing this!
I say good for you for buying the sofa you really wanted!! I don’t think you need to explain your purchase to anyone at all though I do appreciate seeing your process in saving for it. I hope it brings you much joy and comfort in the coming years!!
I can’t wait to see that sofa. I’ve been looking for a number of years for a bench sofa and have yet to find it. Congratulations.
Dear Marion,
I can’t wait to see your new sofa in your home with a picture of you relaxing on it……good job with the budgeting! It is a lesson that you have given your children and actually everyone reading your blog!
xox Merry Christmas! xox
Very smart! I think that this is why we like coming to your blog! To inspire us! If you think about if we went to a blog that showed how someone who had unlimited funds and could just go get whatever they wanted, could hire the best decorator then that would not be much fun! We seek for inspiration to decorate our homes and not breaking the bank! You do this very well!
I say Good for you!!! I think we all need to splurge from time to time and you work hard for it. You should never feel bad about wanting something nice for your family.
I’m so happy for you and can’t wait to see it. I’m only sad I couldn’t help take some of those unwanted rugs off your hands lol… enjoy!
Oh, do post some pictures if you haven’t already. It must be dreamy.
More power to you for your conscientious bargain hunting and creativity in funding your splurges! You are teaching this ol’ dog some new and inspiring tricks. I’m looking forward to seeing the new sofa in your space. God bless!
Congrats! I know it will look beautiful in your room!
Sounds like a great way to get what you really want, and at the end of day, I would worry about who you might offend. You owe no one an explanation. Can’t wait to see the sofa in your living room!
My comment should have said, I wouldn’t worry; not I would worry. Typing too fast.!
Good for you for being RESOURCEFUL!!! {When do we get to SEE it?}
Oh, I’ll show it when it’s delivered!
Marian, I’m so glad you could get your couch and honestly, it’s no one else’s business! 🙂 I understand the conscience thing…I have it myself, but after many years of loving the fun of thrifting, this is a lovely reward. Enjoy it to the fullest!
Congratulations for finally being able to get your dream sofa! I agree, sometimes you need to splurge and with all the savings around the rest of your home, I think you deserve it. Well done, I love the way you saved up.
Debbie 🙂
I’m so excited for you!!! The occasional splurge is definitely warranted in this case, and it did me a world of good to see how you raised the money to buy the sofa. I, too, am furnishing my house with stuff I have to “re-make” but occasionally you just have to break down and buy what you want to get the look you’re going after. Congratulations on your new sofa, and Merry Christmas!
So excited to see your new sofa in place! Don’t let anyone rain on your parade. You don’t need to justify yourself- your finances, where you splurge- that is YOUR business. You are still making a beautiful home on a budget. Wanting something and saving/scrimping for it is totally legit 😉
Thanks, Tricia!
Good for you! I too am resourceful and have furnished our home with mostly auction and thrifted goods, but occasionally it is really nice to purchase something because it’s just perfect and doesn’t require any elbow grease! Your choice is gorgeous! I have 2 little boys as well and a leather couch and until they are grown and out of the house I don’t think I’d go back to an upholstered couch.
I have to admit to some envy of your abilities, being able to find awesome fixable pieces on side of road, flea markets, etc. so think you probably really earned that sofa a few times over.
I’ve had one really good sofa in my life. When we moved to MT we bought a Broyhill sofa that I loved and my hubs/daughter got rid of 3 yrs ago behind my back just because it needed to be reupholstered. I loved that sofa and hate the one we were given free. I appreciate it but still pretty sore about their sneaky trick. The chances of me being able to ever buy another “good” sofa are pretty nil. We’re on SS and things are pretty darned hard for us with all the price raises over the last few years. If you can get that sofa, hey more power to ya. Enjoy it, you work hard and have lots of life ahead of you all. Happy holidays.
Good for you! I think it’s great that you saved and got exactly what you wanted. You DESERVE it!
I enjoyed this post. It’s great to see how you did it and to give encouragement to others, along with some creative ideas about how to come up with the money to buy something that you really wanted!
I think we all can have ideas about what we really want, and we can’t always find what we really want any other way other than saving up for what we want.
Sometimes people think bloggers make a lot more money than they do. I had an email from a reader earlier this year who assumed I was making $8000 a month, because she had heard that “that is what bloggers make.” I know there are bloggers out there who are making that much, but that’s certainly not most of them, and definitely not me! It would take me years to earn that much from my blog.
I know that it’s easy to envy what others can do in their homes. I personally have had to limit my blog reading list in order to keep my own sinful feelings of envy at bay. I keep reading yours because you give me practical ideas for decorating that can one day be within my reach. Some are even within my reach, if I find a creative way to make them happen. I really enjoyed the link to making and preserving boxwood that you shared recently. I grow box-leaf euyonomous, which looks similar to boxwood. Someone who was moving gave me two bottles of glycerin that she didn’t want to move. I don’t have the coloring yet to keep them from discoloring, but I can save for that now and eventually make my own wreaths as well.
We saved for years to have some couches and chairs. Before that, we had a used futon and some used folding chairs; the folding chairs were the kitchen table chairs and when people came over we brought them into the living room. (The kitchen table was a metal table bottom–like the kind that held a glass top outdoor–and the table top was a round piece of plywood, painted black) . We knew what we wanted and we found out that our style is an older, “east coast” style that even the furniture places don’t sell on the west coast (We went to a furniture show with my mom, who could purchase new pieces wholesale because of her business). So, we ended up having what we really wanted made for us. It took many years to be able to do it, but it was a huge deal, and we were very happy to have couches with a single bottom cushion in a classical style.
Now those couches are worn through, and we’re looking to have them recovered. It’s going to take a long time to save for that. We found a woman who can recover my husband’s chair in leather (which is what he hopes will last most than the upholstery fabric that we had before). She told us where we need to go to buy the hides first. We’re amazed at her prices (so much lower than anyone else and much lower than buying new. Plus, he loves the chair we had designed for him).
It will take time to save for them, and we’ll have to get pretty creative for it, too. This post was a good reminder to me that it can be done.
Thanks for sharing!
That is wonderful! You definitely deserve the sofa no matter what the cost! When jyou have created such a beautiful home by being mainly creative, you definitely deserve to splurge!
Enjoy it!
Jane
Flora Doora
I think if you are working your A** off to run a household, a business and everything else you do, you are entitled to buy the best. If you are sitting at home reading blogs and doing nothing to further your life, and belly aching about lack of funds, you don’t deserve it. You go girl! I for one think you do so much for us, the public, that you should have your dreams come true too.
PS. can’t wait to see the pictures.
Great story!!! Good for you! Can’t wait to see the couch in it’s beautiful setting 😉
All our furniture has the same story! Nothing is ‘brand new’. In the next years, I hope yo get a new bed for our poorly neglected master bedroom!
Marian congrats on getting the sofa that you want. That was a brilliant method of paying for it. My sofa was an investment when I bought it and after I got over the heart palpitations associated with making a big purchase I’ve never regretted it. It’s over ten years old and solid as a rock. We use it everyday all day. Some things are worth investing in. When you balance it out the way we do with making,fixing and doing over less expensive things you still come out ahead. I love your sofa, it has beautiful classic lines and gorgeous legs. The fabric you chose for the pillows is beautiful too. As hard as you work and as much as you invest in redoing anyone who has a problem with your purchase needs to get a life! I am so looking forward to seeing all of your changes.
One of the major ways of living on a budget is being RESOURCEFUL….and that you were and are. Love the sofa! Enjoy it guilt free!!!!
Marian, I am always so touched by how truly humble you are both in your blog and in person (Haven and Chapel Market)! I think I would be dancing around singing the “I got me a $3000 sofa!” song. And here you are justifying it to the world (which by the way is wonderful for you to share…make people realize that where there is a will there is a way) . Well deserved girlfriend! Enjoy that baby!
I loved this post. I think it freed me to think of trading in things we could save indefinatly – like points, or a carpet that might be useful for something I know my family will enjoy right now. Please tell us how you chose the lighter leather for your couch. I looked at the choice and wonder how you came to that determination. The darker brown seems a bit more practical, but I’ll bet you have a very smart reason and I would like to hear it. 🙂
Honey, the sofa is gorgeous and you deserve it! Just because you are thrifty does not mean your entire life/home has to be thrifty. Sometimes you just need a well-made piece that will last. I don’t think anyone would judge you.
As others have stated, you found a very resourceful way to get this sofa. I don’t think you should feel guilty about making the purchase. Sometimes when we strive so much in being thrifty, it can become somewhat stressful in making a large purchase. But you saw some great ways to come up with the funds and that in itself is very thrifty! I hope you enjoy this beautiful piece for many years, and it’s just perfect that it will arrive before Christmas!
Merry Christmas to you and your family!
Dear MMS, I think it’s wonderful you are getting your dream sofa. You will have it for many, many years, I’m sure. I have big items that I paid a lot of money for that have lasted and stayed beautiful and have been worth the cost. Merry Christmas! Hugs, Anne Boykin
The more you give, the more you receive; and you certainly give and inspire us all everyday! I know it can be hurtful when people can’t be happy for one another. But you are showing the infinite possibilities, so know that it brings special rewards. Thank you so much for all you do and . . . you are blessing someone else with your older sofa! Yes, you are a blessing with your little Mustard Seed. Merry Christmas!
I would never ever pay that kind of money for a sofa or any other piece of furniture the only NEW things in my house is my mattress and box springs, my grand daughter’s mattress, and my refrigerator —
i guess when you only make 13,996 per year on disability new furniture isn’t feasible. Not saying people can not buy new but man 3200 for one piece wow!!!!
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I felt a little sad that you needed to somehow justify buying the couch brand new. I think after all your thriftiness, you deserve it! I did enjoy reading how you went about it though. Good job 🙂
You GO girl! Don’t apologize, you did good!
Something that I’ve been looking and wanting for awhile now is a round coffee table/ ottoman like the one you have in your living room! Wanna sale it? Just kidding… I’ve been following your Blog for a number of years now and you may have already shared about the ottoman but could you tell me about yours?…
I’d sooooo appreciate it!
CM
I actually made that ottoman for the book and there is a tutorial on how to make one. I wanted one, too, but couldn’t find one, so I made it. You know what, though, I would sell it, if you’re local and interested!
‘I think it’s tough for us “thrifty girls” to give ourselves permission to go into a real store and buy something that doesn’t need to be glued, screwed, fumigated, patched, painted, repaired and refurbished.’
Very true – but in this case … it’s almost like things just ‘fell into place’! Ha! I’m sure that you pray about major purchases like we do! I’m always so thrilled to see how God provides through creative and unusual ways! I hope you love your sofa and enjoy it for years! To God be the glory!
Good for you, Marian! Being a thrifty girl myself, I know exactly what you are talking about. Glad you gave yourself permission to go after what you really wanted. I believe we can never have enough of something we don’t want, so allowing ourselves to go after our heart’s desire is deeply satisfying. I hope you enjoy that beautiful sofa for many years to come! Thanks for all the inspiration you share with us. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
I think it’s awesome you are getting a new couch, and not going into debt to buy it! We could all take a lesson in that. Also, a couch should be a splurge, in my opinion. It gets a lot of use. Just like your bed. Should be the best you can afford.
I was wondering though, have you sat on this couch? I don’t have a pottery barn near me, and I wasn’t sure if it’s something that was on the floor, that you fell in love with…,
We went to a Pottery Barn in northern Virginia, but they didn’t have the couch. They did have the chair, though, and the depth, arms, and color of leather were the same, so we were able to get a good idea of how it would feel.
You figured that out pretty fast when you set your mind to it! You go girl. It’s kinda funny, but the two thing I like to have new are sofas and beds. I’ve had my share of both of them used. And will continue to when good deals come along. I figure I save money on all the stuff I buy second hand, or get as hand me downs to justify a new purchase now and then. Most people who visit my home have no idea that most is someone’s cast offs, they are just delighted in what I have put together or collected. You inspire a lot of people in your thrifty practices. Hugs!
One of the great things about the sofa you bought is it is going to last a long time. It’s worth it to save up the money to buy something that is high quality. It ‘s when we spend money on things that don’t last that we’re being impractical.
I love how you shared how you saved up the money. It shows that we can be creative and not have to dip into our savings if we really want to.
Well done! Can’t wait to see the pictures!
I dont think you owe anyone an explanatione to spend money youve earned on anything you choose for your family and your home. I love your switchroo concept, I too do this and will always figure out a way to get something I want. Thank you for the inspiration you always give thru your blogging. Keep doing what you do best!
What a wonderful example of work and resourcefulness to be teaching your boys!!
For this of us who have followed you from early on know your decisions are not made on a whim. No explanations needed for me.
I am so excited for you! And even the most frugal person has to respect that you saved for the sofa. You worked for it. You didn’t just put it on a credit card. I hope you love your sofa!!
I don’t think you need our permission to buy something for you and your family. You have saved me so much money with your projects and I have learned so much from reading your blog. Sometimes in your life you have to buy something you really want. I hope you enjoy your new sofa more than you even thought possible.
Over the years I have seen many of our friends spend freely on material things, and others agonize over every penny. I think your approach to money ( not taking it from your household budget , cutting corners on things that are less important so you can have what you truly love is the perfect money relationship. Better to have a few items you love than a household of compromises.
For those who complain about their “fixed income” , I hope they will become inspired to follow your example to save, re-purpose, thrift ect …. You are like the little engine that could!
It was good to learn how you could work toward your goal and I am glad you reached it. However, you don’t have to justify to anyone how you spend your money. You work hard and you deserve something special.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
If people gripe about you buying that sofa because they can’t do the same, they are not paying attention. You have worked hard (and saved a TON of money) over the years, and you deserve a brand new treat now and then. Thanks for sharing the process – it’s inspiring!
I still get excited when I find a sweater at Goodwill that is one of “my colors” and isn’t 10 years out of style. Yay for thrifty girls! 🙂
Good for you, Marion!! I wouldn’t think anyone would look down on you for purchasing your sofa for the cost. You creatively came up with a solution to fund it. You, my friend, have given me a little (a lot) of inspiration to start tucking some of the extra money that comes my way, aside for our future good quality couch. 🙂 Can’t wait to see it and the smile on your face after it is home. 🙂
I heard Nate Berkus say more than once on his show that the one piece of furniture you should not skimp on is your sofa. He said buy one that you love, is comfortable and will last many many years. Then decorate around it! You are very smart!
I believe what you have done to save for the couch that have dreamed about for a while is AMAZING. I also believe that there are 2 things that you should invest your money in if you are able to and that is your bed/ mattress set and couch. They are 2 things that should last you for a very long time so you should invest in them and get EXACTLY what you want. ENJOY!!
Funny you should post and then ask who’s looking up/using points. Those points from my credit card kept accumulating, only redeeming a few on two occasions; once when I gave them to my daughter, and one time for me… for Pottery Barn, no less. Until this year… Until Amazon began accepting points for purchases. So… this year I ordered my grandchildren’s Christmas gifts through Amazon, paid 100% with points, including 1-2 day shipping. I hope I don’t sound foolish when I tell you I felt very proud of myself for having done so.
Thank you for all your wonderful stories and inspiration. You’re rare indeed. 🙂
no need to explain unless others own you. enjoy!
It’s a great looking sofa. It would take a small miracle for us to afford something like that right now. I do think that new sofas that are more affordable tend be light and not well-made–we have an old one in our family room. It’s covered in drawings and is ripping in a few places (it’s from the late 60s, early 70s, so that’s to be expected) but I’ll get it reupholstered next year once I’ve saved up. It’ll cost a lot but not as much as a new, high quality sofa!
Marian, one of the great things about being thrifty and resourceful is being able to enjoy a splurge every now and then. Congratulations on being able to enjoy two splurges lately! You have a lovely home! I enjoy your blog immensely! I too am thrifty and have decorated my home in much the same fashion as you: thrift stores, auctions, craig’s list and road side finds! I too sell things to buy something new (to me) or brand new. I am over fifty now and still do this! It is a joy for me to create, re-use, and repurpose, But sometimes a girl just wants something new. Good for you for knowing when that time is and not going into debt to do it. You are truly an inspiration to young people just getting started and to us older generation! God bless you and your family for your wise choices and your willingness to share your experiences! 🙂
I paid that for a sofa in 1991 dollars. Guess what is still going strong, having been recovered? That expensive sofa with the hardwood frame. I have two boys and a dog.
The other cheap sofa I bought? Already broken, already sagging. You’re doing the right thing,
Lol…. I was about to run ask hubby if we get points just before you made that last sentence but wanted to finish reading this post. Okay off to see if I can get free money.
Good for you. I have a few things that I splurged on over 40 yrs ago and I still get a thrill when I look at them. Just 2 years ago I replaced a sofa that I splurged on over 32 years ago, so 32 years of enjoyment was well worth the splurge. Hugs, Marty
Hi Marian, it’s so nice that you shared the creative ways you used to get the sofa you wanted but I hope you don’t think you have to justify buying a new sofa to your readers. It’s really none of our business other than to admire it in the pictures of your beautiful home. Even if you are thrifty it does not mean that you can’t purchase a nice piece of furniture. I am really happy for you and I’m glad that you were able to get the sofa you wanted. Enjoy!
No, I didn’t feel like I needed to justify it…I just wanted to share. 🙂
You shouldn’t feel a need to explain yourself because you purchased the sofa. How wonderful you are to have shared the whole process of saving, simple selling things you didn’t want/need, and so forth with all of us. How great it is to hear it can be done. I’m sure plenty of us appreciate that! I know I do.
People have raised their eyebrows at me for having horses & riding because of my choice to have been a stay at home wife & mom. Well raise away. I bartered & sold items, babysat & cleaned homes, etc. to put money away to buy my horse, then to care for him, etc. and so forth. He’s a very happy, healthy boy, and I’m proud I was able to make it happen. I know that I am healthier emotionally & physically from having, caring for, and riding him. To me, that is the important part.
Your sofa journey is yours, yet you share with the world. That is a giving heart. That is what is important!
I find it sad that you feel the need to justify buying a new sofa, but I have a feeling you were trying to front load damage control for when the envious folks start coming at you. I admire your talents, and am happy that you are able to buy such a lovely piece of furniture for you and your family to use for many years to come. Enjoy!
Marian, I hope this is not a justification post for any reader who is unreasonably bent out of shape about a purchase you are making. Your home, your household finances, your choice! No explanation needed.
Oh no, this wasn’t to anyone specifically or in response to anything. I just wanted to share. 🙂
Enjoy your new sofa…you work hard and you deserve it!
Don’t feel like you have to explain/justify the cost of your new sofa at all! This is actually exactly my design philosophy of mixing high and low; our couch was from a thrift store, (but reupholstered,) the TV stand was thrifted and refinished, the coffee and sofa tables were on extreme clearances as floor models from a furniture store, and our side tables came from estate sales, but our custom leather recliners were $4300. I always feel like you can elevate EVERYTHING if you know where to buy/collect inexpensively, and where to put your money.
Congratulations on your new purchase.:)
It’s a beautiful sofa and I hope you have many wonderful years of great service from it.
Enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Merry Christmas!!
Your design ideas for the Pottery Barn tables were really creative! So glad you got the couch you wanted and I can’t wait to see it in your house! Keep inspiring us!!!!
Funny, the two things in our home that we bough from a “real” store and paid “real” prices for are our master bed and sofa. Everything else we own is a hand-me-down, freebie, CL find, gift card purchase, or flea market find. For whatever reason, those two items seem to be the ones that require a splurge. Enjoy the sofa.
Great point!
Hey, I loved your inventiveness and the way you broke down each step of your saving process! 😀 Thanks for sharing! I just wish my credit card points added up like that! 😉 Enjoy your new sofa!
Enjoy your sofa! Thanks for sharing your tips. I enjoy all of your posts.
Lynn
As I look around my home, I see a beautiful leather chair and ottoman that I spent $1700.00 on over 10 years ago, just about everything else was free..Until my husband retired he was in the reconstruction field mostly due to fire and water damage. When the insurance companies settled with the homeowners a lot of times the items were just thrown away. We spent many hours, cleaning, sanding, refinishing, painting, but I have many pieces of beautiful furniture, including a french sleigh bed, Ethan Allen 4 poster bed, dining table, chairs, sideboards, hutch, wing-back chairs, many beautiful end tables, even sets of china that only needed washing..and many rugs..Lots of items have helped furnish homes for 3 daughters..So Miss Marian, enjoy your sofa and be proud of how you earned it. I am about twice your age and proud of every dollar I’ve spent on my home and proud of every dollar I didn’t spend. As the years go by, you’ll be even prouder of what you’ve done too..Enjoy that sofa!
Can’t wait to see it! I always LOVE sitting on the store couches, they are the bomb! Very fun!
I think that it is wonderful how you shared with us HOW you purchased such a beautiful piece of furniture. It was a lesson to us on how to be creative in the saving/spending process. I just wish that my area had the type of flea markets, etc. in which to find the bargains that you find.
I think having a couple of new/splurge things that you use EVERYDAY is perfection! You won’t regret a quality sofa. I have had my share of “temp” sofas and I will never do that again!!
I am so happy for you! Thrifty girls need to still together! I do the same thing. Proverbs 31:17-18,27 says of a wife of noble character: 17 she sets about her work vigorously; her arms arm strong for her tasks. 18 she sees that her trading is profitable and her lamp does not go out at night. 27 she watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. The Lord is blessing you for your faithfulness. Congrats!
You hit the nail on the head! When you said that people who are usually DIYers, feel bad about going to a “real” store to buy retail price for something – something we don’t have to take home and sand, stain, paint or fix…… That is ME!!!! I have been searching for some living room furniture for some time now – hoping to find something great at a yard sale or estate sale…….. so far, no luck. When I have looked in the stores, it floors me with how much they cost! I was so happy to read your post and know that there are others out there that would have to “justify” a purchase from a “real” store.
So proud of you for saving all that $$$ and reaching for what you really want. No need to explain yourself either. I’ve been told I have a sofa “fetish.” I see a sofa at a yard sale and I grab it. My kids tease when they see one, “oh no, momma, look the other way!!!” Actually, I’ve just been waiting to find the one I really want. For the time being, when I get a sofa for free or next to nothing, I can change my whole look. You’ve inspired me to save now and really find what I want once and for all. Can’t wait to see your new space!!!
I’m happy for you, and you don’t need to rationalize the purchase of this sofa to anyone! Merry Christmas!!
I love that you “saved up for it”. In a world of instant gratification, where people often live outside their means this is almost unheard of anymore. Great example! Just watch House Hunters a few times and see how young couples buying their first house and they have to have granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, etc., etc….it’s not only wise to save for things, it’s really quite fun and makes the end result all that more rewarding.
You don’t have to explain to anyone, if your hubby agrees that’s all that matters. I just spent $4200 on furniture to replace a cheap sofa we just bought a few years ago. Enjoy your new sofa!
Oh Miss M…I sure hope you getting a new sofa doesn’t rub people the wrong way. I’d say that all the years you’ve been working hard starting your own business and nipping the budget you guys deserve a new bed and a new sofa. Or any ol’ thing you want. And what a smart creative way to buy it. Hubby would be lucky if I’d be so smart. ha.
Big Congrats! I think the sofa is the BOMB! Another leggy girl here. I don’t buy anything unless it has lovely legs or lovely feet. 😉
Enjoy Miss M!
JaG
This has nothing to do with your blog today but it needs to be said. I just used your color typewriter today for the first time and I am giddy with excitement! I never paint furniture black and I am so glad I just dive in and tried it! It is amazing how the wax transforms it! Don’t know if I will be able to sleep tonight. I want to paint everything in typewriter now! Wonder what te hubby would say if he woke up to black walls? 🙂
Thanks for making amazing paints and having such an informative fun to read blog!
Dear Miss M,
I wouldn’t call your sofa a splurge, I’d call it an investment! I think it’s good you gave yourself permission to save for and purchase something you really loved. I am humbled by the wonderful projects you tackle with a modest budget in mind. I’m sure that sofa will look really fantastic in your beautiful home. You worked really hard to save for it so God bless and enjoy it!
Marian, Thank you for sharing your world with us. I Love how you are so thrifty~ I myself am the same way!!! It also is hard for me to justify a splurge and like you I scour flea markets, craigslist, and auctions to find what I want and sometimes I just have to bite the bullet and splurge!!! So it is nice once in a while to Not have to do anything!!! LOL Keep doing all that you are! I Love your home! I read your blog everyday!!! Junitta
Thanks for sharing how you did it. Now I’d like to know what kind of credit card do you use that will earn that many points? The most we’ve ever earned is $75.
Go for it MMS… you deserve it! After scrimping and saving like you did you enjoy your brand new PB couch… can’t wait to see it!
Susan
You do not have to explain yourself. U have earned that sofa. Plus you were very creative in how you were able to purchase it!!!
What an awesome present. You must have been a very good girl this year. I have to say that I am obsessed with the dream family room rug! I love the blue birds!!! I have an antique sofa I have been wanting to do in a blue buffalo check and this rug would be perfect. I’ll be obsessing over it until I find it now. Lol. Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Thank you for sharing this Marian. Going to retail and splurge on things isn’t my style either, but sometimes it’s necessary in order to get what fits best for our needs. I’m so excited for you about your new sofa – you have to let us know how you like it 😉 Looking forward to seeing it in your family room! ox
You deserve it! You’ve worked so hard for everything you have…even this new sofa. I can’t wait to see how it looks. I love that you are so grateful for everything you have!
I think you work hard enough and you deserve it! It is always fun to buy something new. Can’t wait to see it in your home!
If it rubs some people the wrong way so be it. You were creative and you came up with the money without using any from your family budget. If I find something I want for our house I do the same thing. I save up my allowance or I find other creative ways to buy it. Yes my husband and I get an allowance. When we do our budget we put money aside(a certain amount) at the beginning of each month that we can spend. I’m the spender and my husband is quit the saver. He’s saving for a big project he would like done. A screened in porch. I’m spending mine on paint for our kitchen and cushions,towels and maybe a vintage piece or two. This has always worked for us and hopefully we are teaching our boys a thing or two on being thrifty. The credit card bonus points are the best. I’m cashing mine in soon for a Dyson.
I can’t wait to see that beautiful sofa in your house.
You deserve it & I can’t wait to see what a $3300 sofa looks like!
I’m thrilled you are purchasing the sofa of your dreams…you deserve it! We purchased our leather sectional, after I won a $500 gift card to put towards it from a local radio station, just for joining their site!
Can’t wait for your new sofa to arrive.
Thanks for sharing your method! Yes, I know that a sofa like that is way out of my budget right now but hearing your process of HOW you got the funds together – that makes it feel very doable for other things that I have been “wishing” for in my home. For me this is similar to when I look at how you have beautifully recovered a sofa or chair and, although that type of sewing is way beyond my current ability and time limitations, it inspires me to hone my sewing skills on a smaller scale and work toward something bigger. So, hearing your process for saving for such a beautiful piece has me thinking about some things that I don’t love or use that would better serve me if I sold them and put them toward something I do love and would use. Thanks for sharing! Enjoy that new sofa – it is so nice that it will arrive before Christmas. Can’t wait to see how it looks in your home.
Just wanted to share on a side note that I got your book for Mother’s Day this year and was inspired to make some changes to my home since then – simply by using what I had combined with some paint, elbow grease and creativity. I have to say that I love the way my home looks this holiday season. While there is still much to do – the changes I made have added up and are noticeable. Even for holiday decorating – I went “shopping in my garage”, reworked some things and the house looks lovely. My 7-year-old said “Mommy our house really looks like Christmas this year”.
Thanks for the inspiration.
hi Marian!
I love this idea! I Too try to follow the adage “New one in, Old one out”! And I also try to get as much life out of something as I can……But sometimes something calls your name and you have to have it……instead of impulse buying you used strategic buying …. always a better idea! I hope you will share the new couch with us!
I also think everyone deserves a splurge once in awhile. After all is that not the reason we do what we do in some ways. Those of us who have shops or sell from our home the things that we refinish and create do so for a couple of reasons. One is because we love what we do and the other for some of us is to share that with other people in hopes to make some money along the way. I do not hope this comes across wrong because I am not trying to pry. But I to would like to know what kind of card you use as well. My husband and I have been looking for a card that gives good rewards. Thank you for your time and as always for being exactly who you are.
Your room is coming together beautifully! I loved how you worked together with your husband on the points to make this a reality. I know he must really appreciate your thriftiness and creativity as a wife to support budget living! Happy for you!
You don’t have to be apologetic. You work Really Hard. It’s sometimes unrealistic to expect people to set up housekeeping with throwaways and junk. In the older days, like the 50’s and 60’s, people saved up to get married and then bought furniture that lasted them a lifetime. You also need to keep updating your home because that is your Blog’s Content. It is your laboratory. You also deserve to buy something for writing your book. Much love for the New Year. Ann
Hi, Marian, like my husband says, “Buy the best and only buy it once!” HA! Over the years that has caused me some problems, I have to keep a couch FOREVER! When I was younger I never wanted a leather sofa, but he won on that one and now I love the leather sofas. We bought 2 new leather sofas a couple of years ago and I am sure they will be here for the rest of my life!! We have been married 42 years and have had only 5 leather sofas in that time! Merry Christmas to you and your wonderful family.
I do not know if someone else has asked this but, how do you know if you are going to like the way the couch,”sits” . Did you get to try one in the store or are you just taking a chance. I only ask because I have been salivating over another one of their couches but was too terrified to purchase it because I was afraid it wouldn’t be comfortable! So how did you figure out how comfortable the couch would be or are you just braver than me? Haha
Yes, we went to the Pottery Barn in Tysons corner to test one out, but they didn’t have the sofa on the floor. They did have the chair in the same leather we wanted, though, and the dimensions of the seat, arm, etc. were the same, so we made sure that was comfortable.
Ps. I have a leather sofa now and I love the wipe ability of the leather with kids and after seeing what I wipe off I would never go back to a fabric sofa!
Marian,
I think it is wonderful how you share with all of us. When I was a young mother (a few years ago. Ok, more than a few years ago), many experienced women at my church took the time to instruct us youngers. And I absorbed so much and will forever treasure those women and what I learned. I take your post in the same “how I do things” spirit. Thanks so much for putting yourself out there!
You deserve that beautiful sofa, girlfriend! And I can’t thank you enough for the inspiration you provide. I love your warm, beautiful home and love to get ideas from your blog. You are awesome and your blog is awesome and the fact that you get to have the sofa of your dreams is awesome! 🙂 You go, girl!!
You are my kind of gal! Years ago a neighbor introduced me to yard and estate sales when I was first married. My home is full of beautiful pieces, loved by those before me, and now loved by me. Some of my pieces even have value, like the French dressing table given to me. The table is from the 19th century, absolutely beautiful. And yes, my husband and I have ALWAYS had a budget and paid cash for our purchases. In my younger years, I had different kinds of part-time jobs to pay for my habit; changing the look of our home. So congrats to you for being so resourceful and showing others the way.
Barbara
Marian, I think it’s wonderful how you got the money together for that beautiful sofa. What does it matter what you paid for it or how you got the money. You are entitled to it, you earned all the money fair and square and now you will have your dream. I get your posts by e-mail and I read you all the time, but don’t often comment. I love your home and what you have done with it and I’m so glad you were finally able to order the sofa. Can’t wait to see it in your lovely home..Happy Sunday..Judy
Good for you.
No explanations needed.
ENJOY that sofa—and don’t look back
You should never feel bad about treating yourself and you are still creating a beautiful home on a budget. Sometimes the items we are looking for are too specific and just aren’t going to be out there in the thrift stores. You were still able to teach us how we can purchase something simply by selling things we don’t use or love anymore. It takes a lot to move on from an item you own even though you don’t use it and I give you a lot of credit to be able to do that!
You DESERVE this – no explanation needed! I do many DIM (did it myself) project, save change and small bills, coupon, etc. to take several vacations a year. Some people can’t believe the trips I make based on doing these things but I don’t spend money on cigarettes, eating out frequently, and other items like some folks I know (who then complain about never having any money). You have a BEAUTIFUL home and you earned this sofa! Enjoy!!!!’
Enjoy your new sofa; congrats on your clever accounting ;-).
No need to explain .. ENJOY!
I don’t think one thing about you buying a sofa- no explanation needed! You have a beautiful home and I think it’s nice to have a fabulous piece to compliment your home. You have inspired so many to thrift and take the challenge of tackling a roadside rescue! I’m thrilled you have found a sofa and appreciate how you achieved your goal! Hard work and ingenuity scores big in my book!
I too have a home filled with handmade custom curtains (done by me) and trash day or garage sale finds. The 2 things in my house that were splurges are my beautiful heavy solid wood king size bed as well as the leather sofas we own. I am in agreement that when you are frugle sometimes it’s better to get a few things new of excellent quality because they cost less long term since they last
It is an expensive sofa, but being creative and having the imagination to remake so much of your other furniture means it was a great deal. PB’s stuff is all very well made, and I’m sure with two young boys in the house that you’ll appreciate a durable sofa that’s easy to take care of. It’s just me and my husband and we have a white Ektorp sofa. It looks great a little while longer with no kids, but taking the slipcovers off, washing them all, and getting them back on is an undertaking.
Enjoy that sofa and snaps for the resourcefulness in paying for it. 🙂
YAY!!! Don’t you think for a minute you have to justify that couch! The money you saved, the thriftiness you use and share with others all the time, you deserve to splurge once in a while! Enjoy!!!!
NO JUSTIFICATION NEEDED zone here girlfriend!!! Is there a picture on here? Would love to see it all “together” in your living room
YOU GO GIRL!
Well, in my opinion, it isn’t anyone’s business what you buy and how you buy it. You need to treat yourself! Good for you, Marian! Enjoy your new sofa!
Woo Hoo! Way to get creative for that sofa! As for our credit cards points, they’ve just been cashed out for a Disney trip 🙂 Enjoy that sofa! Merry Christmas! Melissa @ DaisyMaeBelle
Bully for you!! Your website is making a beautiful home by being frugal and creative. Well you did just that! If you can’t pat yourself on the back I’ll do it for you plus a big hug!! I am so excited about seeing it in your home. I am very proud of you and from the sounds of it so are your friends and loyal followers 🙂
Can you tell me where you sell your household items at?
Well, in answer to your question…
Last week, I bought an expensive Canon camera. I had 3/4’s of the money and then, while, I was on Amazon looking at it, a screen popped up saying that Amazon now takes Citi Credit Card points…there you go, I had 200.00 worth of points on that card. Got it! I’m so excited!
Ginene from Fox and Finch Antiques
Or, how many of us “thrifty girls” have bought something that was not the thing we loved, but the thing that was cheep. Sometimes it’s ok, because it’s what we can afford or we know the kids will destroy it anyway, but sometimes we just regret passing up on those things we truly love.
i loved this blog because it has inspired me to get moving on selling a couple of items I have been holding onto for no other reason except they cost me big money at the time I purchased them. I know if I sell them and make even a few dollars I could purchase something that would fit my home and lifestyle more. We moved a year and a half ago from a desert sunny climate and a very large home to our small cottage on the water that used to be a vacation place. My furnishings and accessories had to be scaled down. I love Pottery Barn furniture because it fits my lifestyle and it is so comfortable.
Hi, Enjoy that sofa with your family!! We all save a little in one way to splurge in another!!
I had a $35 yard sale sofa upholstered in tapestry about 25 years ago(cost 1,000)
to have done!! I am still using the sofa!!I do wish I listened to my Mom and covered it
when the children were young! You will not have to worry with leather,Happy Holidays!!
You know what – you don’t owe an explanation to us (your community of bloggers) about why you chose to spend a healthy sum on your new sofa. What I did enjoy about your explanation by the way, is the fact that you did not enter into that decision lightly. You have carefully weighed your options for years and years and then once you found just the perfect sofa, you didn’t charge it, but you found creative ways to pull the money together. I know exactly what you mean though when you are a frugal person, it’s so so difficult to give yourself permission to buy. I’m sure the quality and certainly the style is going to be a beloved piece for years. Personally, I’m a case goods person myself, because I think the various woods, design detailing and style are priceless. An upholstered piece can usually satisfy as long as there are great looking fabrics on it. And I keep track of my points on a monthly basis and use them at least every few months. Good for you MIss Mustard Enjoy your sofa!
Now I think I will read the comments from your other bloggers. I just didn’t want to be persuaded by what your other friends wrote. I wanted my thoughts to be original.
Hi Marian,
I rarely add my two cents on the happenings of your wonderful blog, but I must comment on this. Firstly, I am really happy for you that you were able to buy the sofa that you hankered after, and, secondly, it’s nobody’s business but your own how you made that happen..More power to you!
And having said all that, I am mightily impressed with the ‘how’! You are an amazing woman in every sense of the word. Love your can- do spirit and your humanity.
Enjoy your sofa.
It’s a good lesson on how to make spurge purchases accessible if you don’t have the money lying around. Most of us can pinch pennies somewhere, or sell off items we aren’t using!
You have earned the privledge of doing exactly what feels right for you and your famiy!
Thank you for sharing your many talents & gifts~
Being you..is enough!
Cynthia
I love it! There are certain things that I would buy new in a heartbeat. A Kitchen Aid mixer if mine ever dies etc. I cannot wait to see a picture of that sofa! Great post on a smart way to buy something you really want
I am so so happy for you for your new sofa and that beautiful bed. You did an excellent job of figuring out how to pay for it. You are always always so inspiring Marian! I can’t wait to see the sofa when it arrives!
I felt sad for you while reading your “sofa post”. I sensed that you felt embarrassed to have it. And further, that you owed your readers an explanation. Yes, your blog teaches many lessons in frugality, however that doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve success. The life you’ve created is whatever you’ve chosen it to be and includes all the success you’ve earned. Enjoy every minute of that sofa Marian. I hope you smile every time you walk past it.
I love to yard sale and remake a lot of my things too, but sometimes buying a really nice item (especially upholstered pieces) just pulls the whole room together and makes the “cheap” pieces look even better. Good for you. I’m glad you splurged! It is hard on us bargain hunters though isn’t it?
Marian, I have read your blog for a very long time and been inspired by you. Your home, your family, your humility and your faith. I have never commented, but like others today, feel compelled to. You are wise beyond your years and through very hard work and sweat equity have earned every success and every thing that you have. Never feel you have to explain something…you owe no one that. You should be proud of the way that you creatively saved enough money to buy that sofa (and bed) without dipping into the family budget. You are to be congratulated my friend! Those pieces are loved, will make you smile every day and will be with you for the rest of your life. Bravo to you Marian! Thank you for being who you are!
Two key words…”your blog”.
Merry Christmas
Hi Marion, I just wanted to say: “You go, girl! Congrats on achieving your goal!” If anyone says something snarky about your buying a new sofa, please let me know & I will give them a “come to Alicia talk.” You work hard for your money & how you choose to spend it to decorate your home is your business. Yes, your blog & trademark are built on thriftiness & repurposing, but it’s also planted on a solid foundation of using what you love. For many years, I furnished my apartments as a single teacher (translation: NO extra money) on hand-me-downs & thrift shopping. I loved it & so did a lot of people. Fast forward to nowadays that I’m married with a much larger income. Do I still thrift shop? Do I still look for interesting repurposing? Yuppers! BUT, I also bought myself an Ethan Allen blue sofa as soon as I could afford it. And everytime I walk through the Great Room or go to plant my butt down, I sigh & think, “Gaw, I love this sofa.” Enjoy your Pottery Barn treasure, honey. You earned it!!
That is fabulously inspiring – well done. My younger daughter had a splurge when she finished school & was heading to uni after the Summer. She EBAYed a whole lot of things that she knew she wouldn’t use again & used the money towards things she needed. I do what you have done – save up & find extra for things I want ….
Speaking as someone who has been married for 40 years, the things like I REALLY wanted and spent the money for a high quality item I still have. Mostly, I was frugal like you, but something you sit on all the time needs to be able to hold up. It is similar to clothes, it is fine to buy some cute little tops from the bargain rack, but cheap shoes make your feet hurt and ruin your day!
Life is all about balance. It can’t be all one way, all the time. And I think the mixture of investment pieces and reconditioned items is what we should all strive for. A mixture is really what functions best for any family – the ability to snuggle up everyone on a really good, quality piece like your new sofa, while perhaps putting our feet up on something that has been reclaimed and recycled – that’s perfection in my mind! So don’t feel guilty (cuz I think I hear a little guilt between those lines) – you are doing a fabulous job with your home, and inspiring us all. Enjoy!!!!
You more than deserve to have special purchases especially as hard as you work for the things you have and have created. I read in a magazine once that it is better to have one thing you love and will have forever than many things you have settled for and I totally agree with this. You did not go in debt for these beautiful pieces – you had earned every penny for them. Enjoy and don’t worry what some people might think or say. There will always be negative people unfortunately.
Your transparency is appreciated. I share your angst a over paying retail. But your blog and book are about more than doing a lot with a very little…it is also about doing what you can with you have. And you have, or should I say had 😉 points, cash, extra wares, gift cards and your husband’s approval. Additionally, you have a house that is part business, part workroom, part home, part lavatory, part retreat, part ministry, part entertainment space, part prop space, part showcase and part playhouse to two rambunctious boys. That’s a whole lotta parts for a little ol’ white slipcovered sofa to play. Poor little thing probably needed to go out to pasture. So…pony up and let the new cowgirl be the workhorse!
Ooops!! That’s laboratory, NOT lavatory!
Hi Marian, so glad you are able to get your sofa… You worked for that and totally deserve
it!
I am trying to order some things from your store, but can’t get the site to reflect the number I am ordering. On the page where I initially place the number I want, it shows correctly, but when I continue to check out it keeps saying I just ordered one. HELP!!
Sara
I am glad you got the EXACT sofa you wanted! I also really appreciate your willingness to open up to all your readers about exactly how you accomplished that – it really isn’t any of our business, but hearing how you did it gives me hope and incentive to save up for my own big dreams. :). Congratulations and Merry Christmas!
Marian, you don’t need to make any apologies for buying yourself a new sofa! It looks like a great piece, the kind that will provide, not only good looks, but comfort and durability. And even it that wasn’t the case, so what? You work hard and there is no reason why you shouldn’t have it. Stop feeling guilty and enjoy!
I loved your story of saving money for your sofa..what great ideas..get rid of stuff you did not want or need and clean out in the same process as gaining needed money. I am not too thrifty myself, if I see something I buy it usually. The only problem is that I never cease to see something I would like but now retired need to think twice to see if we really NEED it! Keep up the good work..love the contests but I am not too lucky that way..but love to enter anyway. One day I might win!
susan
I think everyone agrees that you deserve this wonderful sofa and don’t need to justify it to anyone, but I do know what you mean. It can be rather frustrating when you go to check out someone’s blog post titled ” my ______ room makeover on a budget” only to find their budget is 10 times what you would consider a healthy budget. It doesn’t take much talent to create a lovely room when you have lots of money, but to do it on a modest budget takes talent and ingenuity which you have by the boatload. So you used creativity not to fix your old sofa but to find a way to splurge on a new one. Kudos to you and all that you do.
Hey, you deserve to be happy and you also help the economy which needs all the help it can get. That sofa will look great for decades. Our leather wing chair from 1976 is still a fav of mine, cracks and all.
Great for you on the sofa! I have discovered online garage sales on Facebook and I’ve been selling things that I no longer use when we downsized a few years ago. I’ve had great success on there with selling.
There’s a sofa on PB that I want too – and I decided when I started selling that would be my goal – to buy that sofa by purging what I own. This is a win-win situation. Cleaning out and making money.
You just have a larger audience for your sales. Happy for you!
Marian,
I think you are amazing and don’t have to justify buying a new sofa…….one that will last you a very long time! : o) This is a wonderful tutorial that reads like a mystery and I couldn’t wait to get to the end. Can’t wait to see the new sofa in it’s new home.
Trust me, Marian – I know those points by heart every day, because I, too, am saving for something. You gotta love those cards that earn points that you can cash out! You enjoy that sofa! You earned it by now with all your hard work on the many neglected pieces you have restored over time! God Bless you and what you share with us every day!
We must be twins separated at birth. That is EXACTLY how I look at things when I’m rationalizing the rare splurge for something new. I even throw this in once in awhile for good measure: AND I DON’T DRINK BEER OR EAT POTATO CHIPS! So there. Rock on with that new sofa!!
You know what to say to is the word naysayers??
A quiet yet with all the grateful heart you feel:
The Lord provides.
I often feel I have to justify a pro paint job when we are so poor by explaining where the funds came from, and my husband, not well with a brain tumor, and me with a traumatic brain injury knew we could not paint ceilings and these tall vaulted ceilings! Our blessing came from an unexpected source and how fresh it all looks. And I say, as my Dad taught us, The Lord provides.
Are people jealous? Cruel? Wicked to promote you doubting your right to a new couch, pretty hair, clothes and jewelry? My hubby says satan likes it when we doubt ourselves and listen to these few negative grippers. Satan rejoices for our eyes are off praising The Lord for a new couch!! He knows how to give good gifts!! Not a used rocky bottomed couch but a new comfortable couch that youth group will use to study Gods Word. Isn’t God so good? I want to sing praises in fact I just did!!! For His goodness and blessings of a couch that is new and JUST what you wanted!! Topple satan who robs joy and delight with praise and thanksgiving!!! And enjoyment of the GOOD gifts God gives 🙂
PB better hand over the 10% designer discount too!!! You rock girl~
I can’t wait to see the new sofa in your home. I LOVE Pottery Barn. I have their credit card that earns you dollars to spend in their store. The closest P.B. store to me is about an hour and a half away so I don’t get there much. I have a good friend in Jacksonville, FL that I visit several times a year and really enjoy shopping at the one there. I drool over their catalogs and dream. It’s good inspiration. When my husband and I remodeled part of our small home we wanted two leather sofas. I really looked for them at P.B. but they didn’t have the style sofa I wanted in leather. (very clean straight lines). So I ended up getting mine at Ethan Allen. (Purchased with inherited money from my mother. I know she would love it that I got something I loved for our home). As everyone has said…no justification needed. It’s your home and your money. But I think it’s great how you did it. Good for you.
Congratulations, Marian! We’re saving up for our a leather couch for our family too. Have a ways to go but saving. I can’t wait. My $100 Craigslist find is now dying after 5 years…. x
Congratulations! Well done and certainly deserved. Enjoy!
I dont comment very often but I want to say you have always seemed like a very REAL person to me who works very hard at everything she does to make it the best it can be.
By your photo, I can see you are still quite young and I certainly mean no disrespect but Honey, You cant please all the people all the time and in truth is, you should’nt even be trying to.
Your family needed a new sofa that worked for your lifestyle at this time and for many years to come, and you got it for them.. enjoy it ~! nuff said:)
Well said, Sonny! My thoughts exactly.
Yes, indeed, well said, Sonny. I couldn’t agree more!!
Enjoy the sofa Marian! If anyone has an opinion, they are entitled to it. However, in your home you do what you want to, that’s why it’s yours. I’m glad you were able to exercise your creativity in obtaining the sofa. Everyone should keep in mind that creativity can be used in all areas of our lives. You did just that! Congratulations and again, enjoy your sofa!!! Hooray for creative women!!!! And thAnks for inspiring the rest of us!!!
You don’t have to justify wanting what you want. You work hard and although it is a lot of money for one item, you deserve it. That’s the whole point of using all the second hand stuff that you do. It saves money for the things you would like to buy new.
I too find it hard to put out that kind of money but sometimes I can’t find what it is I am looking for and then I budget to get the money.
Good for you.!! I am sure you will look back in a few years and think how nice the sofa is and how well it has worn.
I too would like the bed you bought and am on the hunt ( 3 years now) for the one I would like. take care, and keep up the good work. Your’s is one of my favourite blogs. I read it every day and have learned many things from you. Thanks Rose
Good for you, your creativity has earned the sofa for your home.
That was a great way to get a pricier piece of furniture, Marian!
Unfortunately, we don’t earn points on our credit cards. The only one that “earns” something earns airline miles. True, that would come in handy when we save enough money to go visit my mom in Europe again.
Your home is so pretty! Hard to believe that all that beautiful stuff was bargain or found. I almost said how lucky you are but it isn’t just luck. Your talent is AMAZING! Enjoy your new sofa. You have earned it!
Enjoy that sofa! You deserve it!
Enjoy it! Leather wears well and you will have it for years! You work hard for all that you have. YOU are amazing. Just enjoy.
Glad you were able to purchase the sofa you really want.
Credit card rewards points can add up. When we purchased our first house (last year) we were very tight money wise. The “found” extra money payed for movers (for the heavy stuff).
Now I only check rewards points once a year.
I don’t think you need to justify a thing, lady – nor even explain how you ultimately saved up for your sofa splurge or why. (I do appreciate seeing how you got to the total, I just don’t feel ENTITLED to know that if you choose not to share. :))
I read your blog because I love your work and your style, not because I have a set of expectations you’re required to live up to. From my house to yours, YOU GO, GIRL!
You go, Girl! Your blog is so inspiring and creative and just good, solid, stylish diy
information from a very talented, down-to-earth person who is an incredibly hard worker and
clever woman. You deserve the best, and you were so open in sharing your process (when
you certainly did NOT ever have to do!) which really gave me new ways to look at items I
want! THANK you! You’re the best!! Keep it all up!
Every once in a while you just have to give yourself permission to indulge and get just what you want. Nix any guilt…you deserve it. Enjoy and Merry Christmas!
You don’t know how many times I have had to be “creative” to get the things I want. Good for you for being smart enough to figure out a way to get what you want and not effect your family’s account. I am the same as you as far as 90% of my things coming from thrift stores or yard sales, but I am a little creeped out by used couches. Things that I can reupholster I am fine with but the last thing I would want to do is bring “bed bugs” in to infest my home. Couches are a splurge for me too! Can’t wait to see it!
Hi Marian,
I love blogs but yours is by far my favorite…in large part because you are so talented and humble and your style is “within reach.” But with all that being said, YOU GO GIRL! I hope you never feel bad or guilty about finding such a creative way to purchase that sofa. Heck, you could’ve purchased that new sofa using whatever means you choose, and it really shouldn’t matter what any of your readers think! But thanks for being so transparent…and enjoy that gorgeous sofa. I can’t wait to see it in your living room.
Thank you for sharing your life and home with us. It is such a pleasure to read your blog!
Love,
Steph
First of all YOU GO GIRL! And secondly, you don’t owe us an explanation because if we love you and your blog we need to celebrate this with you and not judge (if that’s what it’s called).
NEVER apologize or justify a purchase!
All those incredible deals-finds-budgetary sacrifices are how we GET TO INDULGE in the SPLURGE! THEY ARE HARD EARNED AND DESERVED!
Catherine
I am soooooo very happy for you Marian!! You work really hard at making your home so lovingly comfortable and adding a new piece of furniture is certainly a choice you need to make for yourself NOT us. Enjoy every minute sitting with the family on that sofa and every night in that gorgeous bed!!! With my Blessings! Not that you need it.
Marian… you do not need anyone’s approval or negative/positive opinions… you work hard, you thrift, you create, you save, you do all of these things for your home and family … why, should anyone have any negativity to add … I say, you scored and you are awesome. I did this with my Kindle HD purchase … saved gift cards, Staples rewards, squirreled a little money away … Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas, Happy Mother’s Day to me …
Can’t wait to see it in your lovely home. Hope it is every thing you hope for.
What a smart person you are. I too have used, hand me downs, free, craigslist buys, do all my own work, scrimp and save so I can have nice pretty things for retirement home in Colorado. I like the integrity of the antiques, and things I get., There is a story, pieces were loved by others now by me. They are now like new, no one would know the difference of where they came from. We all should recycle, reuse and enjoy that of our past generations. Ikea has a place, high end furniture and accessories etc also, but give me my antiques any day. And yes I will purchase a new item or two. If I like it I will get it. Like you Marion, we deserve it. Enjoy your new sofa. Way to go Girl!
Merry Christmas,. God Bless you and your family.
Linda
from the OC
I don’t believe you owe anyone an explanation…you are entitled to do what YOU choose, being it is YOUR house, your life and all…and it saddens me to think that people would not respect that. You are very thrifty, but there is nothing wrong with spending your money on whatever you choose, regardless of this being a fit blog…toy knowledge this is still YOUR blog. You inspire us Marian, we should ALL be a little more appreciative of this and proud of your accomplishments(which I think most are). You keep doing you, because you rock and if others would listen, they would hear God speak thru you. Sorry for the soapbox but I will tell you what I tell my oldest daughter, always gonna be haters-so just keep being awesome cause it will inspire someone else to find their awesome, this is the sign of a good leader, which you are. All my love and thanks for the inspiration!
Diy blog, not fit blog…even though it is;) lol
I have mostly hand me down furniture or thrift shop/garage sale items. I did however get this $1900 king size bed from a second hand shop in good shape last year for $450. I sweated over using income tax return money for a single item that expensive, but I have been happy every single time I look at it. I have found when I get EXACTLY what I have in mind, I never care to replace it. In the past, I have ended up sometimes spending more money trying to make/find/fix a replica of something than if I just went out and bought it. And sometimes it’s really nice to get something brand new (I don’t do it often, but it’s nice:) Sally–enjoy your sofa, but please post a link to it or a picture, I am dying of curiosity:) I personally find the way you funded it pretty darn cool!
http://www.crateandbarrel.com/colette-california-king-bed/s652298
This is the fab bed I got second hand I just love….
Enjoy your new sofa with no hesitation! A great new piece can hold up for years. When my husband and I were young and he had his first grown up job, we splurged on a beautiful new sofa. A classic style, it made the rest of our hand-me-down furniture look brighter and fresher. That sofa went to college with both our children. Hard work should be rewarded. Enjoy and don’t be afraid to splurge. I love your creativity and thank you for sharing your financial creativity as well. Keep your chin up and keep inspiring us!
I think it’s pretty cool that you were able to creatively come up with the money for the sofa. I love Pottery Barn. Can’t wait to see your new piece.
A couple of months ago I found a great sign made from a vintage wood window (painted Louis Blue chippy paint) at a “Barn” store that sells on consignment. I spent just over $50 on it, even though I worried that it might not work in my home. That was pricey for me for a thrift find…
Well, short story long, I placed it in the back of my car and the glass broke. I had already decided to take it back to the store hoping for store credit, but that killed that idea. I finally gave up trying to think of ways to re-use the window part and put it in recycling. Why do I even tell you this? Well, I was beating myself up over a total waste of money and my husband made the point that I have a buffet in the corner that I got for $40…I just had my sofa recovered and found the brown velvet at a discount fabric store for $140, as well as the white denim for the slipcover that I also had the upholstery guy make coming in at $150. I have drapes I just made for my new living room, six panels worth, that cost only my own sewing time and a staggering $65 for all the fabric. The worthless decorative window WAS a write off and a little sad, but you average out all you do and you find that your bargains are still bargains.
I understand completely why you felt the need to explain your reasoning on spending a chunky $3000 for a new sofa, because you are right…there will be those that will think you “sold out” or something equally unrealistic. I find myself explaining all the time when I spend real money on something instead of “finding” it or making it or painting a garage sale castoff. An upholstered piece is a very reasonable place to put a few extra dollars. Loved the dollar by dollar explanation. I think you worked things out quite well. Not every item in our “Thrifty Girls” homes has to be from a dumpster dive to be a good deal.
I won’t judge you for your new PB sofa if you don’t turn up your nose at my new Restoration Hardware Madeleine counter stools. Deal? Deal.
Deal. 🙂
You said it perfectly when you said, “I understand completely why you felt the need to explain your reasoning on spending a chunky $3000 for a new sofa, because you are right…there will be those that will think you “sold out” or something equally unrealistic.” I took some grief when I bought my Restoration Hardware bed, so I wanted to share how I make these big purchases happen. Maybe it’s nobody’s business, but as a blogger, I’m am “out there” and sometimes addressing issues before they become issues is a good idea.
It’s been so neat to see the response to this post as well and fun to hear different perspectives on splurges for the home. I’m glad I shared!
Bought a well made leather sofa with innersprings and hard woods, mahogany frame when my daughter was born. She turns 17 this month, and I have NEVER regretted the purchase (it retailed for 3200 back in 1996). So, from my experience, it was worth it and such low maintenance with the kids, shoes and liquids. CONGRATULATIONS. BTW- still love the sofa and it is still in good use!
I love picking at estate sales and my house is filled with great furniture finds but I draw the line at couches! I agree completely with getting a brand new, beautiful couch for you and your family to enjoy. I bought an expensive couch a couple of years ago for my family room and every time I sit in it I enjoy it! The best part of a new couch is you know exactly the history of what fannies sat on it!
Most of my furniture is repainted flea/tag/handmedown and I love it. HOWEVER, I will not purchase second hand ‘soft’ furniture. I don’t have the know how to reupholster and I fear the dreaded bedbug. I totally agree with purchasing a new couch and why not something you’ll love for years to come. I’m eyeing that pottery barn leather chesterfield myself.
You should open a Pottery Barn credit account to pay for the sofa and then pay off the account with the cash…You will earn $270 coupon from them and could buy something else!!!
I used to blog and when I got to the point where I started to feel I had to justify myself- thoughts, actions, purchases, I stopped. Not saying you should do so, but, you don’t owe anyone an explanation! If you want to go buy a $30,000 couch- go buy a $30,000 couch! Who cares?! I love your blog but found this particular post uncomfortable to read. Its information that shouldn’t have to be made public to your readers…just my two cents.
It did me, too Josephine. To think that she feels the need to explain a purchase she made to people, most of whom she has never met, hurts me for her. I couldnt believe the audacity of some of the people reading her blog to have the nerve to comment on whatever she gets for free. Specifically thinking of the chair back in late summer. Those people were totally out of line. Ridiculous.
Cool. Can’t wait for pics once you have it settled in. On the aside, your blog often makes me think of William Morris: “If you want a golden rule that will fit everything, this is it: Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.”
Good for you! And a PB couch, so jealous!!! I am in the same boat right now, what can I sell to help fund the next project/furniture purchase/backyard. Im running out of things worth selling!!!
I think that is awesome. I have my eyes on a mid-century modern sofa from thrive furniture, but I need 2, so it’s going to bring the total up to around $4000. I feel the same way. I have spent practically nothing on furniture, so for a quality sofa that will hopefully last years, it’s worth it.
I’m going to start looking around to see what I can sell, baby!
Hi , first off great blog, I don’t usually comment, But I had too. You work way too hard to have to explain about your sofa. For the people that don’t understand that’s too darn bad. I think that is great the way you went about it. Even so a sofa is one of the hardest working piece of furniture in your home and in todays world quality does not come cheap.
I have furnished my entire home for 20+ years with yard sale, hand-me-down, freebie and craigslist finds. It started out as a necessity for me and turned into a challenge and a passion. My only exceptions to that “rule” are sofas, rugs, art and mattresses. In those cases, I always, always, always shop for exactly what I want! Happy Holidays!
I love using my American Express points for furniture! While I have “repurposed” furniture throughout my house – our DVD storage is a closeout/sale dresser that I got from the Bombay Company outlet store, andove pieces around when I can, my son’s nursery furniture – crib, toy chest/bench, dresser, bookshelves and night table – were all purchased with American Express points that I redeemed for gift cards to Pottery Barn Kids, Land of Nod, Crate and Barrel, and Walmart. Even though these pieces were purchased new, I loved the fact that I could use points versus spending cash for them, and I bought items that will last throughout his childhood and can still work in a guest room when he’s grown. This year, my now 7 year old requested a desk for his room – we redeemed points from AmEx once again to get him the PBK desk he wanted for Christmas. We use AmEx for gas, groceries, dining out, just about everything, because it’s like using cash (you have to pay it off every month, so we’re not going into debt by using it), and I love their points program. Congrats on the new sofa!
I like the way you creatively gathered the funds for your sofa, but I didn’t need to know it. Just the fact that you did it without pulling from household funds was good enough for me. We readers who aren’t bloggers can’t do the same anyway, so I personally am just glad for you! Most bloggers accomplish more than I ever could dream, and I sometimes wonder how they can afford RH and other high end things, but then I have seen that all my life. People do what is important to THEM, and every one of us have different priorities. I knew folks who went on vacation many times a year, others who always had closets full of new clothes, and others who move “up” to bigger homes alot. We do what we like. Hopefully, we don’t go broke in the process! Hubs and I choose to live humbly, so that we can visit our kids out of state and splurge on them sometimes. We saved for YEARS to see Hawaii, and we hope to cruise Alaska before we get much older. We have a decent home and food on the table, and that’s more than I had growing up, so I’m grateful. If I start to get green with envy, I just remember where I came from. Never feel you must explain what you do. That’ s not why we’re here. Enjoy your new sofa, it will be an heirloom to your boys, and we hope they will share it! ;-))
I felt guilty just reading your post! Please don’t think you have to justify any purchase that you make for your home! And by all means, don’t set an example of confessing or alot of us housewifes are going to be in trouble!!! haha I’m sure I’m not the only one who has “exagerated” the cost of an antique to my husband…”I found it in the dumpster at work…” actually having paid a hefty price at the local Antique Mall! 🙂 Happy Holidays!
you shouldn’t apologize for being fabulous with a mix of decorating goals, old, new, borrowed, thrifted and junked. You kept to your budget, it didn’t affect your family, you work so hard and hard work needs to be rewarded. Good for you.
Please, please, please…get the sofa, sit on it, take a picture with the kids eating popcorn on it and then blow up the picture REALLY BIG and POST! We don’t always need to explain…some will like that you got it and others won’t…enjoy and don’t fret!
You Go Girl!
The only time you will regret buying that lovely sofa will be if you get a cat. Leather and cats are never compatible. Our Hickory Chair Chesterfield loveseat was ruined by a cat. Of course, we never dreamed of that possibility. Please consider yourself forewarned.
Well done Marian. You are not spending money you don’t have! I like that you explained how you saved, even though you don’t have to. This is a good education for all of us.
You should never feel guilty about buying something for yourself and your family! You work very, very hard and the payoff is that you can buy something nice for your home. Why people would make an issue of what you choose to do with your money is beyond comprehension. You are kind of a big deal Miss Mustard Seed and I think you are the last one to know it; part of what makes you so adorable. Enjoy your blessings as you are a blessing to those of us that follow your blog.
Angie from Pensacola
No need to apologize. You worked hard for that! And with young kids, it will last for a very long time because it’s well-made. Yea!
I’m super thrifty, too, but when you save for something nice, it’s so worth it.
I call what you did to get the sofa you wanted, resourceful. I think because you save, thrift shop, bargain shop, repurpose, etc. it allows for an occasional “I want that one”. Cna’t wait to see it.
Hi Marian Iam happy that you got the sofa that makes you happy. You are a smart resourceful woman and you inspire me everyday. Looking forward to seeing the photos of your new piece.
Good for you… Ten years ago we pinched and saved for a year for “the leather sofa”. I have never regretted that decision. In fact I still rub it softly whenever I sit on it because it was a personal victory… (But I also LOVE my full-wall bookshelf I built from four trashed bookshelves and the $10 winged-back chair I found in a classified ad.) Enjoy your purchase!
Can’t wait to see your new sofa! I read the post today and saw that you saved additional money because Pottery Barn will be giving you a refund on shipping. Woo hoo! Wow, you sure used some resourceful techniques to garner the money for your sofa. I say hooray for you! No explanation needed for when you choose to splurge and buy a piece of furniture. It’s your home, your life and your blog. I love to see a mix of things, new, old, repurposed, thrifted. It makes it real and it makes it interesting.
Those of us who are committed to recycling, upcycling, reusing, repurposing, etc… sometimes need a reminder that we do it because we like to, and see the value in it, not because we took a vow of poverty. You saved for that sofa as you said, without dipping into the household budget. Your children didn’t go hungry for you to get it. By purchasing a new sofa, you contributed to the wages of the people who constructed it (from the lumber salesman to the fabric designer to the upholstery staple factory worker), the accountant and receptionist and shipper at the furniture company, the truck driver; even the taxes are paying someone’s wage somewhere to fix a road or stock a library. These people are our friends, relatives, neighbours (yes, I’m Canadian)- we help them make a living too when we purchase these things. You are so conscientious, Marian! I hope that no-one would begrudge you a new sofa. If they do, it speaks to their meanness, and not about the choices you make.
Congratulations, and enjoy your new sofa! ((hugs))
I have been thinking a lot about letting go of things I like to surround myself with things I love. I think this is a perfect example. You are exchanging things and opportunities you’ve liked, used, or saved for something you really love. And it’s just good decorating to anchor your thrifted finds with some higher ticket items. It makes everything in the room look more pedigreed. I am so impressed with how resourceful you’ve been to make this happen. I would never have thought of cashing out points like that. Brilliant! I am excited to see how it all comes together. Thanks for sharing this. I can feel my brain starting yo crank away about what to keep, what to loose, etc.
The Other Marian
good for you! You should never have to apologize for a purchase you earned and deserved!
The fact that you even had to justify this purchase makes me sad. When did we get all get so judgey?!? I’m glad that you are getting to have something you want and that will make you happy! Girl, you deserve it!:;:
I thought the very same thing. How incredibly sad that she needs to justify and explain in detail how she purchased that beautiful sofa. She works incredibly hard and everyone deserves to spend money on things that bring them happiness.
Marian, I so admire your style….You are a wonderful inspiration…I only want to say wonderful things to you, but my heart calls to say the truth. I have No PrObLeM with you buying something expensive for your home. My problem is with Pottery Barn furniture. I have friends who work for Pottery Barn and get the discounts which lure purchases. Many pieces of furniture have been purchased with many tears shed over bugs appearing out of the wood and so forth and so on. I only hope your leather couch serves you as well as your inexpensive one from Ikea…I can’t help but think you would be better off buying a vintage couch and having it covered in leather. I know this will not be a popular comment but it is one from exerience with Pottery Barn Furniture. I hope this does not cause a lot of distress. It is truly menat to be helpful. Ce Ce
I too, have been looking for a sofa. But cannot find anything that I like . I hope you will share a picture of yours and I certainly think you can get what you want however you wish to fund it. But how you funded this sofa purchase was so clever. Thank you so much for sharing.
Congrats on your New Couch! You are an inspiration on how to save and not go into debt for something you wanted.
Thank you for all of your great ideas and helping me look at items in my home in a new way.
God Bless You and Your Family and Have a Very Merry Christmas <3
Good for you, you deserve that sofa, after all the other budget-friendly decisions you make on a daily basis, you’re still actually saving money! I also have mostly (ok, ALL) budget furniture (free/thrift/garage sale/discount, redone, etc), and I finally allowed myself to buy a $2000 leather section a few years ago…it was a terrible quality piece of furniture and wore out in only 4 years (w/only myself and my husband sitting on it – no kids/pets, argh). I’m sure you did your homework and know the sofa you’re buying is great quality, though, so I know your experience will be better than mine. And the next sofa I bought…was heavily discounted due to missing a cushion (damaged during shipment probably). I love the sofa, but have yet to buy true replacement foam & recover the existing one and new one to match – currently using floor cushions stuffed in it and the whole seat covered in pretty ruffled sheets, very shabby chic and perfectly comfy – ha ha.
Thanks for sharing the story of purchasing your sofa. I can so relate. I have always tried to furnish my home with super bargains, but I do believe that when it comes to those things that we sit or sleep on, sometimes new is better. Love your blog…so inspiring!
No need to apologize for hard work! You have inspired so many of us to do the same.
Never apologize for being successful, or for getting what you want, in life. You have earned it!
You are not rubbing ME the wrong way – I think what you did was absolutely fantastic and ingenious! I save up our AMEX points (we use the card for everything!) and buy great things with them. I got a gorgeous buffet from Pottery Barn and have gotten round trip place tickets to Greece, England and France with these points! You should be so proud of how you got to buy that Pottery Barn sofa. You will have it for years – their stuff is good. If you were to get sick of it, you could slipcover it or recover it. It’s a boon to your family budget that you are so smart about finding things for free or relatively inexpensive and paint them and make them beautiful. Hooray for you for getting the Renovation Hardware bed and the Pottery Barn sofa! And the sofa, you might say, was almost for free. Kudos! That’s exactly how I would have done it!
Marian, enjoy your new couch, and don’t worry one bit about it. We love and are inspired by all that you do. Just, please keep doing it! 🙂 You would probably be amazed if you could look into the homes across this country at how much you influence your readers. Now our husbands, they may or not share our enthusiasm… lol Thank You.
You work very hard and deserve every success that comes your way!! If you like that sofa, and you’re able to buy it, then I say go for it and enjoy it! AND…you should be congratulated on your resourcefulness. I admire the way that you saved to buy it. You knew exactly what you wanted, you set a goal, then you worked hard to reach that goal. You should be proud of yourself! Enjoy that sofa.
It is beautiful by the way, I just saw your post that it arrived and it’s lovely. Fits your space and style just perfectly!
Blessings to you and your family,
Kathleen
Oh my goodness! Don’t worry about what other people think about how you spend your well-saved money! Creative minds know how to stretch every dollar, but you are entitled to splurge whenever you want or can afford to! No explanation needed. Just enjoy your pretty, perfect new couch!
I love your new couch. It fits beautifully with all your other furnishings and like everyone else is saying you have earned this and were most creative in how you got the money to purchase, Since when do we have to justify our purchases to the general public who glean many ideas from you free every time you post. I do remember some mean spirited comments about your freebies from sponsers in the past so you probably think you have to explain or justify your big ticket purchases. Stop it ! We love you.