
uncertainty & possibility
“How’s Jeff’s job search going?” “Have you figured out where you’re going to move?” “Have you bought a house, yet?” These are the questions I’m asked almost every time I see someone, speak to someone or text with someone. I don’t mind it at all. I would ask the same thing if I had a friend who was moving. But, the answer has stayed the same. “We don’t know, yet.” When I can see the expression on the inquisitive person’s face, I usually see something that resembles a cringe in one form or another. It might be eyebrows raised or a sympathetic look of surprise. And I don’t mind those reactions, either. I get it and there are moments when I catch myself cringing. I joke with Jeff by saying in my best Mrs. Bennet impression, waving an imaginary hanky, “Oh, whatever will become of us?!” When one woman asked









