I had a plan for my life and it changed. There was a time when my dream was to be a professional stage actress.
(Yep, that’s me.)
It was more than a dream; it was a goal I worked hard towards for many years. I even got my degree in musical theatre. But there came a point in my life when I realized I loved the stage, but I didn’t love the lifestyle that came with it. It meant traveling and going from one job to the next and always auditioning and rejection and long reherasals and late night performances. I knew it wasn’t what God had for my life, so I put it on a shelf.
Last week, I went to New York to film a segment for The Nate Berkus Show. (I don’t know when it’s airing, yet, but I’ll let you know when I find out.) It was an exciting trip and I’ll share all of the details down the road…
…but it was also a defining moment for me personally. There I was in New York City, in a dressing room with my name on it. In a way, it was what I had always dreamed about, except it was totally different and so much better. I was enjoying the “I’ve made it” energy in New York City, but it wasn’t as a starving artist. It was as a stay-at-home youth pastor’s wife and mom who started a business out of necessity and a love of decorating. It was hand-in-hand with my husband through Central Park to watch a Broadway show from the second row and celebrate all of the amazing things that have happened in the last couple of years. A book deal, magazine features, a TV show appearance and an awesome retail space… It’s overwhelming and humbling.
I’m not saying all of this to say, “Oh, I’m so great, look at me and all I did.” I want to share it because you may have had a plan for your life and it had to go on a shelf and God may have something for you that is so much better. I don’t know what that is, but I do know one thing for certain…
…His ways are higher than ours.
Marian I couldn’t agree more and I totally guessed last week when you posted the Times Sq pic that your NYC trip involved Nate – I must be psychic! Can’t wait to see you in action and you deserve to write a post like this because we readers LOVE to look at all you do.
Wow! I read your post and couldn’t wait to comment to you! I too had other plans for my life! I wanted to be an opera singer, but God had better plans than that – and I am soooo grateful! I have married to a wonderful Christian man for 15 years and am a homeschool mother to two lovely children, 11 and 13. God has given me many opportunities to use my singing and acting for Him!!! So much more gratifying! And even right now my whole family and the dog are in Annie!!! My daughter is playing Annie, I’m Grace Farrell, my husband is Lt. Ward and my son is Bert Healy!!!! Talk about a blessing!!! Thank you sharing your faith and being bold about it!!!!!
CONGRATS! I too thought that maybe you were going to be on Nate’s show. SO Exciting! You deserve all of it! Thanks for always being an inspiration!
amen, girl!
so happy for you!
xo
Those words just hit my heart. I ran my own business for 8 years and just a year and half ago the Lord lead me away from that. He knew that my visions and my dreams were for me and not Him. I was just doing dishes and thinking about that career and wondering if God would ever allow me to go back! Six months ago I recieved another calling to homeschool my children (um I was the mom who said I would never homeschool) and there I was lead personally from God to do the very thing I never wanted. I now see the blessing it has brought not only myslef but my family. God has so much for us, but many times we are too busy searching out our wants and desires that we can’t see His wants and desires. Thanks for sharing!
Marian, You are an inspiration to me. I am so happy for you and I can’t wait for your book.
You defied gravity!! I know your heart was full. God is so good and will direct our paths if we are open to his will! I so love reading your blog and reveling in your success with you. Love from a friend in Georgia.
fabulous. thrilled for you. i sooo believe in the ‘higher power’. i’ve been heading in a direction i hadn’t planned and now i have my own shop in my hometown where i am becoming known and accepted on so many levels. it’s exciting.
enjoy your ride….
Marian, That photo of you is amazing! I have so loved ‘stalking’ your blog…have so loved watching your journey..you give hope to a 46 year old mom who doesn’t quite know what she wants to be when she grows up..but knows that God’s plan for her is great!
Love this post! I giggled a little because I have a 12 year old daughter who will tell me what her “plan” for her life is…I just smile and say “let me know how that works out for you! ”
What a great post! It actually falls at a perfect time for me as well. My husband and my devotion last night was about Eph. 2:10 (God prepared good works, in advance, for us to do)–and the author tied it to the well known adage, “What would you try to do if you knew you couldn’t fail?” Yes, indeed. God’s ways are higher than our own, and the plans that He has for us are so much greater than what we could even begin to imagine. Blessings abound! And congrats to you–for finding your God given talents and passions, and putting them to good use. =)
Oh Amen! Been there! (not NYC) ;0)
Congratulations on The Nate Show!!! I love that show and I love you, too. Can’t wait to see it. Your humblenss and love for the Lord are two of things I like about you. You are so much like the Proverbs 31 woman. Thanks for reminding me that even if my plans don’t work out like I want them to, God’s plan is always perfect for me.
So true! It’s like that Garth Brooks song, “Unanswered Prayers.” Congrats Marian! Keep us posted on that air date!
Such an inspiring post! I, too, aspired to be an actress and got my degree in theater, but couldn’t do the lifestyle. I’m a stay at home mom to two boys and at a cross-roads. Congratulations on your appearance on the Nate Show. I can’t wait to see it. I love your blog and find all your work so inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing it all with us.
I’m not sure there’s anyone on the internet that’s more deserving, Marian. Good for you!!
What a great post..God does have a plan for each of us and I am glad that you put your plan on a shelf and God’s plan took over because I would not of been able to leave this post of how wonderful I think you are and how I love your blog..Have a great week and I can’t wait to see you on the Nate Berkus Show..
Marian – what a good reminder for those of us walking paths we didn’t expect to walk. Thank you.
Dixie
Girl, this post was spot on for me tonight! Beautiful. I just posted about His plan for me and a change of plans. I am so excited for you. A dressing room with your name on it, too?! I would have fainted. AWESOME. You are so deserving of all these wonderful opportunities!
I love your story and I couldn’t agree with you more. BTW… when I read that you were there in NYC, I just HOPED it was because you were on the NBS!!! Congrats and will be watchin’ for you!
Congratulations! It’s all so awesome, just like you!
Debbie
How exciting! (although you look darling as a young stage actress). I’m a new follower and want to thank you and commend you for being so open about your faith. You’re an inspiration and an example to me.
You do not know how much I needed to hear that! Thank you for sharing! So excited for EVERYTHING that you have going on! Let us know when you’ll be on the Nate show!
Thanks again! 
Heidi from PartiesforPennies
Thank you for allowing God to speak through you. You are always an encouagement to me and I truly appreciate how you share yourself. I have been stuggling with that very issue and having doubts about my purpose. Yet, he seems to be continuing to open doors for me. And somehow I feel he is even speaking through you…I kind of feel a little crazy saying that! Who knew that you could do something you LOVE and make such an impact?!?
Angela
Such an inspiring and beautiful post. I am 25 years old, a wife with 2 little boys, from Canada, and working part-time for my parents as I work towards starting my own antique and home decor business (in a few years I think!). My husband is a cabinet maker and we’ve come up a few designs for some new pieces, but most of the business will focus on re-finished antiques. I’ve been following your blog for a year or so, and love each post when them come and find everything so uplifting, in a real way. I know that God has my life planned out already, but sometimes I get a little anxious thinking that it’ll never happen for me!
Anyway, thanks for the great post and CONGRATULATIONS and what you’ve accomplished with your wonderful hard work!
How true it is! Such exciting news for you and I can’t wait to read your posts on your exciting adventures!
EXCELLENT!!! Just what I needed to hear too.
So wonderful to put it all in God’s hands and follow where He leads! God Bless You!!
His way is always better than our own. Congrats on such a wonderful weekend of celebration. Funny how your family took you away from the stage, mine is pushing me towards it…just behind the scenes. I am part of my daughter’s school musical production team and love every moment of set design, props and lighting.
Yes, His ways are higher than ours and look at how happy you are for having followed His lead instead of your own. So happy for you!
O my gosh. Were you Annie? because I was Annie and I would recognize that from any where. Congrats on your Nate appearance! I look forward to seeing it! It is Amazing how the Lord’s plan are not our own, but they are even more wonderful.
So awesome! Love how you expressed yourself in here too. Congrats Marian! ~Lili
Mega Huge Congratulations, MMS! That is thrilling and inspiring and tremendously encouraging!
I can honestly say that I completely understand where you are coming from. I trained for many years to have a stage career in Opera. When I met my husband, it was either marry him or go to graduate school up North…I chose the love of my life and, subsequently, a wonderful family with two boys! I was talking to a retired Opera singer a few weeks ago expressing my sincere admiration for her and for what she had accomplished in her career. She looked me straight in the eye and said, “It cost my my marriage.” That hit me right in the heart, and I once again realized that though I may have “given up” my dream, I was given SO much more in return!
So, all of that to say, AMEN, sistah!
Congratulations! This was so uplifting to read! I agree completely- God dreams so much bigger than we do!
I am over the moon thrilled for you!
Hugs,
Penny
This is such an awesome post! I love that you can say that you made it now… it is so amazing how His plans for us can be so much bigger (and better) than we could ever imagine ourselves
Thanks so much for this post! Just what I needed to hear today!
Its so true Marian, I had a different path imagined for myself but ended up in totally different direction. I’ll be looking forward to seeing you on Nate’s show. I ‘ll bet he’ll have his highest ratings ever when your appearance airs. Congratulations!
Amen, Marion! God is using you and your gifts for His glory, which is what it’s all about.
I think is my favorite post EVER from you!
Full of so much truth and wisdom, and boy can I relate.
I am thrilled for all of your success, and can’t wait to see your star rise even higher, my friend!
XOXO,
Anne
SO SO true. I had big plans to become a vet, ride horses professionally, and maybe or maybe not get married. Here I am- a stay at home mom and wife. I am so perfectly happy where I am- and where I am going- I cant even imagine if i had continued down the path of MY plan.
Beautifully said!
What a blessing to be able to see that God’s plan is indeed better than our own
I too had dreamed of moving to the Big City (from Kansas), but God’s loving plan for my life is to be A youth pastor’s wife and mom to two, two-year-old girls who are 4 months apart (yay adoption!).
Thanks for sharing so transparently with us readers! and for being obedient and putting those Tony dreams on the shelf…maybe one of these days you will have a Bloggie to put up there
LOVE this post! Congrats on everything and good for you for recognizing how it has all come to fruition
Thank you for this. This post is good timing for me and a friend. I’ve printed it out for her.
Congratulations.
oh, you gave me goosebumps
In the words of Garth Brooks, “One of God’s greatest gifts is unanswered prayers.” You are blessed.
Hi there, I love your blog. I always read but I don’t believe I’ve ever commented. I had to comment today because everything you said…That. Is. Me. Or it was me. I’ve always dreamed of being an actress, an entertainer, a story teller. That was my passion – I studied it, majored in it, lived it. But it’s such a huge commitment and life started happening…I had to get a “real” job to pay the bills, I got married and my husband became my priority. I had to give up the dream I had of living that life but the life I have now is great too and had I the chance to go back and do it over again, I would. But there’s still that passion in me to be a story teller. It’s just waiting on God to open those doors to where I’m able to in a way that’s better than I could have ever imagined.. “His ways are higher,” just like you said.
Thanks for writing this post. It was good for me to read.
Amen. Your timing with this post is perfect for me too. Thanks for sharing, and congrats on all that you have accomplished with and through HIS grace! You are a great role model.
Thank you for this post Marian. It was so uplifting and just what I needed at this moment. I’m trying to find new ways to hear God speak to me and I feel like this post was one of them. You’re the best! Can’t wait to see your segment on Nate!
Rachel
xoxo
It is very heartwarming to see you publicly take a stand about your faith. That takes courage, Marian! (Isaiah 55:8) Even when we experience disappointments and heartaches in life also, we can always know that God has the plan that He wants for our lives, and that everything works for HIS glory.
Very true, and congrats on all the blessings you are experiencing..
Marian, you are always so gracious in the recognition you receive! Thank you!
You are living the dream.
These brings tears to my eyes, God is so good!
Just a wonderful post and fabulous news. Nate is so sweet. I cannot wait for the show.
Big smile on my face reading this and chills too. You are a true inspiration to so many of us! So very happy for you……….Sue
I am just so happy for you and excited too! Way to go girl!!!
I think the best is yet to come for you… If you think it has been good so far just hold on…
What do you think Nate was doing when Oprah noticed him? We love you and the rest of the world will too….
Thank you Marian for allowing God to speak to my heart. While it is so very true, I am at a point in my life where I am not quite doing what God is leading me to do because it is such an impossible task.(Okay “not quite” is the same as not at all.) How sweet the spirit of our God to keeping prodding and reminding. I rejoice that He put you in the position to be His reminder. Thank you your courage and faithfulness!
Remember, all you need is faith as a grain of mustard seed and you will say to this mountain, “move from here to there” and it will move and nothing, NOTHING will be impossible for you.
Marian ~ I pretty much think this is the coolest post because first of all you look adorable! Also because I love how God works in our lives and pretty much can lead us down a completely different path than we had planned ~ You make me smile following Him !!!
hugs
Lori
I definitely believe that too! I’m so happy for you. Thank you for taking the blessings you have received and turning them around and blessing us, your readers. I have most definitely benefited. Thank you!
His ways are higher! Always to God be the glory, thanks for sharing and giving Him the praise!
So true! Thank you for your post. Trust, faith and move forward with an open heart and He will make dreams come true that you hadn’t even dreamed of.
I am so very happy for you. I didn’t once think you were tooting your horn, you are a humble person and I feel fortunate to know you as a fellow blogger.
Enjoy your accomplishment, your hard work is paying off.
I guess this means all your faithful followers can congratulate ourselves on having such good taste – it’s confirmed!!
Thanks for the post. I really needed to read it today.
I do love me some Nate Berkus! So happy for you…do be sure to let us know when it will air.
Awesome post Marion! Isn’t it interesting how our youthful ambitions and nudging’s get manifested in our adult lives – love it.
All of us at Thomas Nelson are glad God led you down a different path!
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is so wonderful to see what God is doing in people’s lives, when we get these glimpses of how he has treasured our longings, dreams and prayers and gives us these special little treats that are so much more than we could ever imagine.
Fantastic News! I am so excited for you. Life does work in wondrous ways when God’s blessings have been bestowed. He simply had a better plan for you. My nephew did the same thing. He went to Hollywood, had a few roles, and decided he just could not condone the lifestyle or the people he had to associate with. Now he is Captain in the Marine Corps and very happy.
I am happy you sound so content and happy. Good people deserve good things. My best to you, Barb
Congratulations on all your successes. Your story is truly inspiring and full of hope and the perfect example of what happens when you let God take the reigns. Best wishes.
Wonderful!! At, ahem…49 years old, I know AND believe His ways are higher. Congratulations!
Good Evening Marian,
You know, sometimes I think that at 57, my time for big dreams may be passed…….
and then…maybe not ;->
Very happy for you my friend…well done!
Janet xox
The Empty Nest
Amen sister!
Congrats Marian! So glad you were able to make a Nate appearance before the show ends! Your stage experience certainly makes you a shoo-in for TV.
And to quote Oprah, “God can dream a bigger dream for you than you could ever dream for yourself. Success comes when you surrender to that dream—and let it lead you to the next best place.” My, how true that rings right now, No?
Amen to that! I’m so glad that God knows much better than we do what is best for us!
Blessings,
Angie @ Knick of Time
I had a feeling that’s why you were there! Can’t wait to see it!
Meg
You just hit my reset button! Thank you so much! It is so easy to forget, in the business of our day to day lives, that though our plans may be good we are to listen for gods plan. His better plan! Congrats on all of your successes, here are wishes for many more!
Shannon
That’s wonderful! I remember being out of college and longing to work in Washington DC in public policy. Plus, I really wanted to live in a place where there were tons of cherry trees. But the doors just weren’t opening there.
Then, things changed dramatically and I suddenly found myself quitting my job and flying to Uzbekistan to homeschool someone else’s kids. It turned out to be the perfect thing, and guess what else they had? Tons of cherry trees.
Amen. God does have a higher plan! Oh that I can let Him work it all out for me:)
As a non-christian, I don’t call it god’s plan, I call it fate
Amazing what happens when you ” Let go, and let God” Congrats on all your well-deserved success and can’t wait to see you on Nate
Thank you for that \reminder! God is good. Congrats on these incredible blessings – soak up every beautiful moment!
Oh yes, he does have a plan and thank goodness he does!
I”m so excited about your Nate episode. I’ve been wondering when I’d see you on the show. For me, it’s about the b est hour on television these days…Can’t wait Marian!
I, for one, am so glad He lead you to inspire us…the fact that you are a believer maes you even more special in my eyes.
Cori
You deserve all the wonderful things happening to you and I hope it all continues – it’s all so wonderful! And, Nate! I’m jealous!
Isn’t the saying true…sometimes when God closes a door He opens a window. In your case it looks like an extra large bay window. I am happy for you.
Marian, I think God spoke to me tonight thru your post. I was also a Theatre major, hoping to make it big and work in the industry. God had other plans: a lovely husband, four beautiful children and so many blessings! But,( there it is, the “Big But”), I still experience pain when thinking about it all. Did I waste it? Where do I belong now? What did God make me for? That’s where I am right now, today, struggling to find my identity still after 42 years. Your post made me cry,not only because I saw the picture of you playing Annie (I think) I played Annie in high school but also because you encouraged me on a very down day. The bills are due and we feel over our heads, I “create” furnishings but feel guilty for staying home full-time and I am desperate to get a regular paycheck. This is a trust issue for me and God and I are working thru it….thank you for giving me and others hope thru your candidness. It is lovely to hear your journey and of our gracious God who walks us all to “higher places.”
Yes he does! I am so happy for you that things turned out the way they have. Who knows what is in store next – for you, me and all your followers. You are truly an inspiration to so many. I for one have had so many doubts about where I should be now in my career, or should I say lack of it, but reading a post like this one makes me realize that what ever happens it is out of my hands. There is a higher power that will always guide me in the right direction, help me make good decisions and will take care of me no matter what. As the old phrase goes ‘it’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey’. Thank you for letting us take that journey with you.
I did the same thing. Went into a troupe right out of high school planning a career in musicals…and discovered after several years I didn’t fit in. I had too many other interests. I quit and went back to grad school. I wasn’t a Christian at that point…but now see it as God’s protection and guidance in my life. Was out of music for 6 years, and then when I became a Christian my music was given back as a worship leader…for His glory this time. I am so very grateful for His care and protection…even before we acknowledge our need for Him. Thanks so much for sharing!
Ruth
Merci pour ces confidences… mes félicitations…
Gros bisous
Can not wait to see you on the show! It is hard to explain how us Midwesterners are always keeping it real. Of course Nate would have you on his show because great minds think alike.
Was so happy to hear you giving praise to the Lord knowing His ways are always best. We have had some serious financial struggles and when we were in danger of losing our home and I didn’t know what to do and was wondering “Is this the plan you have for us Lord?” and asked Him for a verse and He gave me Jeremiah 29:11,”For I know the plans I have for you”,declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.” And you know what it all worked out and we have our home still and I have so much more hope now and am excited to find out the plans He has for me.
Just adding my congratulations!!
Well said, and well deserved.
Marian
So true, I just wish I could know what His plans are for me. I am trying to have faith, but feel like my faith is not strong enough at times. Congrats to you and your success, love your blog!
Marilyn C.
Bravo!!!
Awesome! So happy for you. I can’t tell you how many times I look back on the things that I wanted and didnt get, and I think “thank you Jesus”. Great post! It’s better when He’s in charge.
Amen, Marian!! We don’t always know where our journey will lead us, but God always knows how it ends….I have trusted in the Lord and he has shown me his way many times…..God Bless You, you certainly deserve all that success brings your way……
So, so happy for you, Marian! God is so good.
Cheering you on from Kentucky!
xoxo
btw, ADORE the first picture of you!!!
Could squeeze that little Marian.
That’ll PREACH sister!
Your humility is one of the reasons that I love your blog so much. When so much awesomeness has happened for you in the last year, you deserve to pat yourself on the back. It’s amazing the ways that God works and how much better what he has planned works out! Way to go and thanks for the words of wisdom!
Isn’t that the way of it? I have always felt that if we knew what He had for us, we would faint.
Ha
Hugs
SueAnn
Hello Marian. Firstly, I am so thrilled about these new developments and the new successes that you are starting to enjoy. I have been reading your blog for almost two years, and sincerely feel that this could not be happening to a nicer person. Congratulations!
I was reading this blog post at work today, and practically burst into tears by the time I reached your last word! My, how God has annointed you! From the day I first read your “Getting Started” series, I felt that you were talking directly to me and today, well, your words really struck a chord!
I have always loved beautiful interiors but never had the nerve to follow my heart and my passions. You’ve certainly ignited a spark for me and I am looking forward to seeing God’s plan outworked in my life. I don’t understand exactly what it is yet, but I know that it’ll be perfect.
Thank you and bless you! Shirley aka “Simply Divine Living”
xxxxx
Marion, don’t we serve an amazing God? He is able to accomplish so much more than we can ever dream or even imagine.
Amen!
What a great post! Congratulations on the “Nate Show”…..that’s soo exciting!! Can’t wait to see your episode air!
That is the cutest picture of you (in pigtails) ever!! Thank you for taking the time to pen this down, a heart-felt post. I try to have some as well, sometimes. If you’re interested, here’s one, from my heart:
http://tree-shades.blogspot.com/2011/06/behind-closed-doors-post-dedicated-to.html
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for sharing it.
I cried when I read your post. This is so true. I don’t even know you but I am trilled for you. CONGRATULATIONS!
So exciting MMS! Congratulations and yup, HIS ways are higher. Love both pics, sweet. <3
Beautiful! Congratulations!
Mary Ellen
The Working Home Keeper
I am so excited and happy for you.I believe God has a plan for all of us.And you are truly talented.I am going to take a leap of faith so to speak and move on to my next chapter in life.After much debating I am going to start a blog.It will be the first step for me to try an new venture.I would love to someday have an at home business of my own.I am a stay at home Mom.I don’t want anything big.I just want to earn a little extra money.You are my inspiration for trying this.I can only try if I want to succeed right?Thank you.Keep us updated.I can’t wait to see you on Nate’s show.
Amen to that!
Congrats Marian!!! My heart swells with excitement for you!!!
Oh Marian, that is so true that He does have a much better plan for us than we do!!! And with that comes so much more peace and contentment. So thankful for people like you who share their heart and are transparent! May God bless you in your new endeavors.
Congratulations are well in order and so deserved. Looking forward to seeing you on Nate!!!! I hope the show will be airing soon so all of us will not have to wait too long.
Amen sister!
That is all great news. You work very hard and sdo amazing things
Thnaks
I got goose bumps reading this and your humbleness comes through….
Inspirational and thanks for sharing!
Thank you for that post, that is really what I needed to hear today! I love your blog by the way!
Congrats on the Nate Berkus show. We met a while back at your mom’s house. I am good friends with their neighbors, Teri and Joe. I just discovered your website. It’s amazing! Your work is divine. I am a stay at home mom who tries to personalize my home with a limited budget. I am so excited to continue exploring your website to help make my house “our home.” Your cabinet painting tutorial is awesome. It’s so helpful since I plan on tackling that project in the near future.
God is so awesome! He really does have a plan for all of us – though sometimes we may not have one clue as to what it is. Thank you for honoring our Father for your blessings. I am so happy for you and your successes. I am trying to stay afloat, too – financially speaking. The last few years have been so hard on our family but God continues to provide. Hallelujah.
Congrats on the show! I adore Nate and his talents.
God Bless you!!
Becky
Congratulations Marian! This is so exciting. I can’t wait to watch.. Your post is also so very inspiring. Thank you.
Amen! Words I needed to hear today.
Omg…congrats I love Nate! You followed your dreams and worked hard and sacrificed for where you are today!! You are an example to many that dreams and hard work do pay off….pat yourself on the back and be proud!
Amen sister!
What a wonderful post! I loved reading this and seeing your photos. I love love love NYC but live near LA (2 hours away), God definately had His own plans and they were so much better! I believe His plan for us is so much better than what we could ever come up with on our own! And following Him is never boring! Thank you for putting this on your blog and not being afraid to use your blog as an evangelistic tool. Enjoy all of your blessings!
Amen Sister!
… and His thoughts are not our thoughts, just as the Heavens are higher then the earth, so are His ways higher then our ways and His thoughts higher then our thoughts. Your accomplishments mean more when your focus is in Him. As they should, His works are lasting and eternal. After all it isn’t about us. And praise God He doesn’t give us what we deserve!
Miss Mustard Seed! I was wondering when you would get on that show! Wonderfully said! Thank you!
That’s awesome. It’s hard telling what God would do with us if we’d get out of His way, huh?
What a great testimony!!!
Amen! I truly believe that when God closes a door, He opens a window! It had been amazing to look back on my life so far to see the turns it has taken…especially when I was trying to force things to go one way, and they ended up going another (better!) way once I left things up to Him! Now, as I am starting my own little furniture business I don’t get upset when I have a rejection because I know something really wonderful is around the corner.
I was wondering why YOU hadn’t been on there before now! hee hee! But that is so fabulous and I can’t wait to see that segment of his show! It will probably be THE highest rated show he’s ever had! ;^) You took a photo of your name on the dressing room, right?
What a dream you are living! I read a quote on Pinterest just this morning that says, “Your dreams aren’t big enough if they don’t scare you” and in a way, I thought of you. Don’t worry, I do have dreams that scare me, so I wasn’t leaving myself out of the equation there. You just aren’t slacking on your dream like I am. LOL!
Congratulations on the Nate show! That is an awesome kudos!
Loved this post! I have a mustard seed necklace and am always inspired by the bible verse. You are living proof that God is so good!
Thanks so much for the post.I’m so happy for you!!I always dreamed of working at an orphanage and loving up on children.Well,I got married and had a baby and Hubby started his own business-a lot harder to go oversees now…We are going to our first adoption meeting tonight.I am soo excited and a lil scared.But God is turning my childhood dream into reality-in a different way I expected.I now get to be at home with my family and have my own little “orphange”-Lord Willing!!This post just showed me again how beautifully God works-how His timing is perfect.I needed this extra encouragement today!!God bless you for sharing your heart and blesseing so many others!!
“In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
Isn’t it amazing that God knows your desires better than you do? He blessed your life in ways that delight you and honor Him. I’m glad you have the good sense to give credit where credit is due. And I’m so glad that your desires are reality.
Bless you.
Thanks for this inspirational post! I haven’t blogged since before Christmas. Some time away with my kids first. But then the hard reality of family problems hit me again. I just have to focus on my path, and the one where I can guide my kids to their own path.
And that stage picture of you is really lovely. Being able to cherish those memories, that is worth something too. I just think: I might not be on the right path yet, but I have had many adventures, and I have wonderful memories. And that no one can take away from me.
So nicely put, and incredibly inspiring!
Thank You
That’s why my favorite verse is Jeremiah 29:11 – For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord. “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hpe and a future.” This year we are having some major changes and my words for the year are change, adapt, create, as God must be leading us somewhere — we just don’t know where at this point! Thanks for sharing.
Going through that right now. Trusting even more the plan He has for me. Thanks for sharing your heart.
I read daily, but have never commented. Congrats on your successes. Eagerly await your book. SO appreciate your openly sharing your faith. Made me think of the quote: Man plans; God laughs. I think God is not laughing at us, but because our plans are often too small for him & his glory. Blessings on you & yours!
Beautiful post that just spoke to me. Thank you so much, and congratulation!
Congratulations – and well deserved! Know that you have tons of people rooting for you!
God is good all the time & all the time, God is good! Well written, Marian!
Someone already said it — You’re defying gravity! It’s nice to live long enough to see how God weaves together the tapestry that is your life.
In NYC, you probably didn’t have time to go to the John Derian shop, but you must next time. I’ll meet you there.
Thank you for this post! I have always had an artistic creative side of me that wanted to do something with art for my career. But, my logical mathematical and practical side of me took over. I was scared of being jobless and earned an accounting degree instead of chasing my passions. Years later, I am thankful that I have had a good job through this horrific economy. And, thankful that I was able to work part time once I became a mom. But, I am looking forward to eventually being a stay at home mom after we are blessed with baby number two and hope that I can find some sort of way to make my creativity into a business like you did.
I agree that God does have a plan. And the more that you trust his plan, the happier you will be and the sooner you will understand that plan.
Thank you so much for this post…..God does have a plan… and I am amazed at how He works things out for our good!!!! Congratulations on EVERYTHING…..
(can’t wait for the book!!)
Thank you for sharing. His ways ARE higher than our ways. Those words resonate and are a reminder to me that all things will work for good and He has the best laid plans for us. Thank you for a message of hope. Here’s to a year where God does exceedingly, abundantly and above and beyond our wildest dreams and imagination. Agape, Lyn
So true and so nice to read a happy reminder. Remember that old joke? How’s it go…”if you want to make God laugh…make plans.”
Thanks for sharing your story. I love these moments when you share personal revelations and such.
I also thought I would be on stage or on tv since I spent 12 years in dance and 8 yrs. in drama and performances. It’s so funny how life takes its turns and leads you to something kind of different. Now, I’m a crafting/ artist mom and wife, who occasionally sells her goods online. My shop and my blog is my “stage.” lol
I have followed pretty much the same path you have taken, with drama, moving around (military brat, have place I lived was Berlin, GE btw
Please, continue to share these moments in your life. They are some of my favorite reads!
Pam
Boy, we do have a lot in common. I actually performed in Annie when my dad was stationed in Germany. We lived in Garmisch and Stuttgart, but I visited Berlin (when it was east and west) a couple of times.
Yes, I feel like my blog and business are my “stage” now as well. When I was in high school, my parents would start to notice when I needed that creative outlet. “Marian needs to be in a show again! She’s being a little over dramatic around the house!”
I love that quote, “His ways are greater than ours”.
Marian,
I learned more about you in this post than any other. Even your first name. LOL
That is just so cool that you realize that you are in God’s will for your life.
Can’t wait to see the show!
All the best,
Charlotte
Thanks for sharing, MMS! Our pastor has been doing a great series on this same concept – that although we may not be where WE think we should be, or maybe we’ve set a dream aside, God is still in control, we are still called to walk the path that He’s laid out for us, even if it may not seem like what we’ve dreamed of. He makes us to fit where we are – and that’s not necessarily to be amazing in everything we do. Sometimes small fits where big doesn’t and it’s one’s “small” gifts that will make the difference. One of my favorite things our pastor has said was “You are more God’s will than what you do. Who you are is more important that what you do.”
Amen to that! and can I just say, even though I’m not family…just a fan, I am so proud of you. First because you gave that glory to God, second because you were patient. Funny thing is, you’re still doing something you love and you still have adoring fans! so cool!
I had to share too: I also worked for many years a professional opera singer here in the SF Bay Area but always had interior design in the back of my mind. After my 3rd child I quit my soprano job at the SF opera to stay home full time with my kids but couldn’t stop my interior design hobby. Now my hobby is my job and I love it! I miss singing but love being with my kids and being creative and getting to do something I’ve always loved but never thought it was where I was “supposed” to be. Thanks for your inspiring story!
I actually teared up when I read this post. It is true that God has a plan for each of us. All I can say is “well done good and faithful servant”! You deserve it!
This really touched me, thank you so much for sharing–and you write beautifully. I teared up a little reading it. I don’t recall how I stumbled across your blog and I honestly didn’t totally know what your blog was about or who you were though I’ve been getting your emails for a month or so. Reading about your theater background just now made me finally say “Ok, who is this woman and what’s her story?” I look forward to exploring your blog further and getting fully caught up on what you’ve been doing and what you’re about. So excited for your success and the inspiration you are to the rest of us that big things can start very small.
Marian –
Beautifully stated….and SO true….I completely changed directions with my life this last year and am waiting to see where God leads me….it’s hard to wait, but I know His timing is what matters….so I’m trying to be patient
Super congratulations on being on the Nate show….that’s awesome!!
Kristal
Thank you so much MMS for sharing with us. This post, along with every other one, has been a true blessing.
WoW…congratulations. Being in NYC, and then being on Nate’s show..what a wonderful time you must be having. How very proud your friends and family must be. I am proud of you, even tho, we have never met. Love your blog, and I’ll be seeing you on TV.
Marian, your post brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations! Your journey is many of our journeys, only with a different outcome, because God has made each of us so differently. I have struggled thinking that I have failed because I didn’t live out my dreams… but my adult children are happy and thriving, my darling hubby of 31 years loves me. I struggle with TN and MS, but at 52 I am still creating every day and have hope, always hope!
As an aside, I am waiting until my hubby goes on his golf trip to strip my Grammy’s dresser top as you suggested. I am going to make a big mess and he doesn’t need to be here to see it! I will post pictures.
Love and Blessings, Melodye
Congrats on the Nate B taping! Like the others I kind of suspected it as well. Can’t wait to see it.
And thanks for the post! I’m i a similar (if not remotely as advanced place). I’m an actor, have been since I was nine. I lived in NYC for years, loved it, did OK and then moved to LA. I’ve done OK here too (TV co-star parts and just did a guest star) but discovered I just wasn’t digging the life. I haven’t officially “quit” acting yet and I do have trouble, sometimes, accepting that maybe there is a “better plan” for me. But it is all good and posts like this remind me of that fact.
Thanks for all you do.
David
Thanks so much for this post Marian! I’ve been mulling it over in my head the last day… Sometimes it is truly difficult to know what God wants for us and I’m in that stage right now. I want to do His work and I’m trying to find that path. I just need to trust Him!
Seriously, so happy for you and I can’t wait to see the show! I couldn’t happen to a better person!
Kristen
What a wonderful post!
God has a plan for each of us
And lucky you to be on the Nate show..I watch it everyday I can’t wait to see you there!!!
Marian
My daughter is studying theatre in college now and we just got back from NYC! Thanks for posting. I will show her this because I think it will give her hope in case things feel gloomy. I appreciate you always being sincere. Thank you for that and congratulations on all of you successes! God does have a plan!
Deneen
So proud of you, my sweet friend.
You’re an inspiration and I can’t wait to read your book and watch your episode!
Love this story, and especially the picture of when you were younger! Thanks for sharing. Isn’t God good?
This post made me cry. Thank you for sharing. I feel like I am standing here waiting, hoping, and dreaming for my dreams to come true. Not sure, if it’s what HE has planned. . .My flesh wants to scream no my way, but I am trying to follow His, because like you I know that whatever HE has planned is much bigger and better then I could dream up!
AMEN!!! You are such an inspiration to me — actually, to all of us who follow you! I can’t wait to see you on Nate…love him and love you! It will be his best show yet!!!!
Congratulations! That is so exciting.
Sometimes delays or changes to our paths are good things!
Amen, Marian~so needed to hear what you just shared as a real life reminder. Thank you, sweet young sister. May our mighty and loving God continue to pour out His blessing from the windows of heaven to you and yours~hugs from OH:)
this is a wonderful post, it is simply amazing how God’s plans for us are always so much more than we can imagine. Congratulations to you, I am so happy for you-you go girl and God bless as you do. WOW!
Yes ma’am!!! God will always open doors if you pray and He knows so much better than us! I have been very stressed at my job and was seeing no way out. I prayed for a change and knew I wanted to specialize in a certain area. Not a week later, a new position in that area at my agency opened up and the director came to me directly and said that God put it in her heart to talk to me about it. I start in 2 weeks!!!
Wow! Your words touched my heart. I’m so happy for you. May God’s favor continue to rest on you and increase your territory. A few years ago I too had a major change….not one of my choosing. Now in a new small town I waiting on and trusting God to show me his higher way. I am so excited. Like my friends remind me. It’s got to be good.
Thank you for this post. I needed it.
You have wisdom that can only come from daily reliance on the Lord. It’s true that God knows the plans He has for us, but it’s so hard to trust Him when I like to control every aspect of my life. Thank you for being so authentic in your blog and your faith. You’re a daily encouragement to all your readers and fans. I’m thrilled for you!
I just read your post to my kiddos. What a wonderful story to remind us that we all have a special journey…we just have to let it play out. Like the old saying, “If you want to make God laugh, make a plan!”
Thank you for sharing.
Kerry at HouseTalkN
What a sweet post- don’t you just love when you can look back at things in your life and see God’s loving hand on it even if it was difficult or impossible to see at the time. I know you will be just great on the show. Maybe they’ll just decide to launch a Marian show!
Can’t wait to hear the details. Congrats on all your successes!
Thanks so much for sharing a glimpse into your life: I know I’ve had situations to come about in my life that were so different than what I had planned (& wanted…) – only to find out the same thing. God’s plan for me was SO much better than what I had managed to formulate!
Can’t wait to see you on Nate! And also looking forward to the other good things to come!!
Wow, Marian, what a great post! Looking forward to seeing you more and more!! You go girl!
I think this is my all time favorite post.
Marian, your words of Truth are obviously resonating with many of us. I am so very proud of you for letting God lead you — and for giving Him the credit and glory for where you are today. Keep it up!
Thank you for sharing this Marian, boldness faith trust, God honoring your life, you giving him the glory.
You words & life inspire & encourage me!
p.s. the picture of a younger you in adorable!
Thanks for posting Marian! As a young(ish) stay at home mom of 2 (the baby being 6 months) I have really been questioning my identity outside of my kids and missing having something to call my own outside of them. I know God wants me right where I am (with my babies!) but your post encourages me to keep dreaming and be open to anything God has planned for me as well as to be content where I am now! I know through him my life can be more than I ask or even imagine! I just pray that I may glorify him in all I do! Thanks.
Congratulations, Marian! God has certainly blessed you with talent but, you should be proud of your accomplishments! I can’t wait to see you on The Nate Berkus show, LOVE HIM!
AMEN! … and congratulations!!!!! Every wonderful think I could think to say, has been said already. GOD is so good all the time – and that you give all the glory to HIM – that’s what it’s all about. Enjoy the path HE’s leading you on… and don’t forget to share the details~
Wow how exciting!!! So happy for you! I can feel the excitement through the screen! I hope someone share the show online (no tv). I knew I should have gotten your autograph!
Remember that song ‘I got a friend in Jesus”, well you do!! I am truly happy for you, and no your post is not in your face at all. It shows what talent, hard work and inspiration can do. For this almost 60 lady that is what I need to keep me trying new things. I will be posting my first Anne Slone project today. See…there you did it again. Keep reaching for those stars, more rewards to come. Di@cottage-wishes.
Miss Mustard SEED!! I have just started following your blog. I loved this post! (it made me cry, but that is not a shocker if you know me). I love that you posted this. It is so hard for us to remember that even though we THINK we have our plan, we need to remember that God’s plan is always better (and sometimes it lines up slightly). HE does have plans for us all! So funny we just had a sermon on this a week ago at church.
Anyway, I am a novice blogger and novice DIY decorator. Will be posting my own ‘before’ and ‘after’ on my blog soon. Thanks for your videos on chalk paint. It really helped me on my project–which I ended up LOVING!!!! God bless you and your sweet family!!!!
What a great way God has blessed you! Congratulations on all of your success. It is always wonderful to hear what God has done. To Him be the glory.
This post was so very timely for me. You see I feel the Lord is leading me to make and sell quilts, pillows, and a few other things. The reason I want to do this is for the fun of creating, to help us get out of debt sooner rather than later and to donate to families adopting through Reece’s Rainbow. But, than there is also this dream to have my own little etsy shop. .. maybe even quit my day job. Anyways, I was discussing this all with the Lord earlier. Not sure I’d want to go to craft fairs, do I want to spend all my spare time sewing and creating, do I want to knock on doors downtown to see if I can consign my wares. Maybe I’m getting ahead of myself. I really am trying to let the Lord lead in His time and the way He wants me to go. Your post just reminded me to be true to myself and to trust in the ways He is leading me.
Amen Sister!!
Thank you so much for sharing this- it made my eyes well up with tears! As a native Virginian, I can’t wait for the opportunity to get back home and come see your space at Luckett’s- a decorating pilgrimage of sorts.
I also have definitely ended up on a road I didn’t plan to be on; life has handed over so many twists and turns and it’s definitely nice to be off of the craziness roller-coaster for now. But when it starts back up again (and you and I both know it will), the one thing that I can have confidence in through it all is the constant reassurance of the Lord by my side, walking with me and sometimes carrying me a bit here and there. I am so grateful for that knowledge in my life, and am so glad that others feel it too and can share it unabashedly. Thank you for adding to the sisterhood (and brotherhood) of Christ.
This post actually made me cry it hit so close to home. I think the greatest blessings in life are when you DON”T get exactly what you wanted. I always planned to go in this direction of having my own little creative business, and that dream is realized more and more every day. But, the one thing I really wanted was more kids! I think the hardships we endure, or the paths God sets us on, ultimately bring us to where we are supposed to be, doing exactly what HE knows will bring us the greatest joy in this life. So many things have helped me understand why this was not meant for me and to cherish all the blessings in my life, and most of all, my three beautiful children.
PS I cannot wait to see you on Nate Berkus! The blogger episodes are my absolutely favorites to watch. He definitely sees that bloggers know where it is at!
Wow – and to think… I almost didn’t read this blog post. I really needed to hear this and be reminded of the wisdom of God’s plan for us. Not just me, but look at the number of comments and the lives you touched with this post!
Ooooo!!!! My soul is singing great choruses of happiness for you!!! And what a great reminder. So needed. Thank you!!
It is truly joyful when you feel that you are exactly where God wants you to be…through ALL of the ups and downs, fame and doing dishes, and the twists and turns of every day. As long as you keep your focus on God and others, He can do even greater things through you. Congratulations on all of these blessings and experiences, and for encouraging so many who may feel at a loss as to their “place” in life.
On a side note, I remember “arguing” with God when I had just begun studying for a degree in interior design, and just felt led to pursue a degree in Music Ministry. I remember thinking, “Fine God (yeah I was 19!), but you better let me know what in the world I’m going to do with THAT when I’m done!” You know happened??? I became pregnant my last semester of college, and became a mommy Sept. 8th, 2005! God really has a sense of humor sometimes.
And now I get to enjoy a bit of both, all while being a stay at home mom…..it’s the best! (Although I wouldn’t mind a housekeeper!)
I have to admit that I burst into tears when I read this posting on your blog — but maybe that’s what I get for reading blogs at work? (I was on lunch break, though.) It hit so close to home: my heart has been so heavy & broken the last 3-1/2 years since I had a miscarriage. Have not been able to even get pregnant since. Now due to health challenges (both hubby & me) and overwhelming financial difficulties, this past year I have seen the dream of children fade away as we are now getting older, and also two ideas for my own business have also seeming died as my health now dictates certain choices. I just don’t know what God wants me to do…where He is leading, which is difficult to admit when you are nearing 42. I feel like I don’t have a purpose — I am desperate for hope, longing for purpose and a career/business/craft that I enjoy & can be successful at, and most of all, still deeply desire children of my own.
I felt really really lost too, and some things that are good come out where you least expect them to. It is always good to try new things, you never know what is around the corner. I hope you feel better soon.
Hi. I’ve been reading you blog for a while now. I too wanted so much to be an actress, and I went to theatre school as well. Then reality hit and I realized I didn’t really enjoy waiting tables and the whole theatre lifestyle. I didn’t last long- over the course of a year or two I went on 50 auditions and never really got cast in anything. It was hard to let the dream go because because I felt it was hard to move on without really achieving some form of “success.” But now I have found something so much better suited to my personality. I am in grad school to become a special education teacher – something that gives me so much purpose and exciting challenges. Thank you for sharing your story – it is nice to hear of others like me. One day I may take theatre off the shelf again, but for now I am pretty happy doing something different.
I wish we all realized that!! PRAISE GOD, in good times and in bad. I look forward to your segment on NATE.
Thank you for sharing that encouragement!!!
Hollie
Thank you for this post, it really spoke to me as I am trying to figure out what I am suppose to be doing, and where I belong besides at home with my babies! blessings and congrats on all your success, it is very inspiring!
Hi dear friend,
I have been so encouraged and blessed by your blog/website for months now! I have never written, but after this post, I decided that the time had come for me to say “hi”. Your blog has been such a joy for me. Ever since I stumbled upon it I have admired your style, ingenuity and love for creating beauty out of junk. I also feel a wonderful kinship with you as a fellow follower of Christ. I too am a stay-at-home mom with 4 wonderful sons and a sweet husband who encourages me in my attempts at beautifying our home. Thank you so much for sharing so selflessly. Most people with your talent would hoard it and you are lavish with help and ideas afresh! Thank you dear friend~
“Only one life will soon be past…only what’s done for Christ will last….”CT Studd
Warmly, Cass
Hi,
We have never met, but I had to leave comment on this post. I, too, have a degree in theatre and worked as an actress and director in Europe and pursued that life as well. But God had different plans for me as well. I had a moment like you last year, while in NYC, my friend had a reading of his play and asked that I read a part for his workshop, off Broadway, and there I was, on my birthday, celebrating, doing a book signing, and celebrating his accomplishments as well. And now, actually reading a part in a play he wrote, and yes, technically it was off-broadway, but it was better than I could have ever planned for myself. The path God carved out for me led me to that moment and I will cherish it. No star on a door for me, but rather a little meteorite shower for me the last 20 years as I make my way through my creative endeavors with my Creator right next to me.
Thanks for sharing all of your talents and letting us know who is leading the way
Big hug
Elizabeth
Marian, thats an awesome story! So cool to see where God has taken you and your family over the past couple years! Today I just “rediscovered” your website, and I love reading EVERYTHING you post! Its super-fun to gather ideas from you now that I have my own little home to decorate! Your words are a huge encouragement to me
And the Nate show! WOW! It is so fun to read about your home and the spiritual lessons you have to share. Thanks!
Marian, I found your blog about 6 months ago and got hooked right away! I would read old posts while nursing my third baby. You have helped inspired me to find an outlet for my crafty/creative side, I am pushing past my fears and starting a business. Thank you for sharing your journey, congratulations for all of your success and may you continue to be blessed with things to celebrate in 2012:)
You are an amazing, very inspiring woman with a lot of faith and perspective. Thanks for your thoughts.
I love your story and how you followed God’s plan for your life and ultimately, how God has blessed you!! My oldest daughter, of four children, also has a love for musical theatre and a God given voice. She attended a high school that put on amazing musical productions and she had leads all through her high school years in those productions. She too has recently reconsidered taking a similar path that you had once anticipated and for the exact same reasons; travel, being away from home even on holidays, auditions, rejections, crazy hours for rehearsals and performances, etc. She also has come to the conclusion that God has something else planned for her life. She had taken a year between high school and college to pursuit this when she came to this conclusion. She is now a freshmen in college and pursuing a degree, but she is still seeking God on exactly what this degree should be and hopes, very strongly, to become a wife and mother some day, as well. I will definitely pass your story on to her. Thanks so much for sharing it! God bless you and your family, Tina
Thanks for inspiring us daily, challenging us, and glorify God in all that we do. Celebrate, Marion!
wonderful post! made me almost cry.
Congrats on your segment with Nate – saw it today (taped from yesterday). It was short & sweet but it WAS–that’s what’s important — your time of celebration. Thanks for the work you do and your inspiration — it was like a little part of all of us was there. P. S. I did hope they would at least put your blog name on the screen as they have with some others — didn’t see it though.